Sure, it is important to be mentally compatible, but at the end of the day, it is the man who can feel things deeply that truly speaks to me. I seek a person who can be vulnerable and open with their feelings, who is not afraid of the extreme risk that comes from being fully present and expressing love.
hot baths...I am nuts about hot baths, showers, hot tubs, stream rooms....I am a very happy camper after a hot bath (and you can't pick a fight with me if you tried, I am so mellow and content) :)
good tea - a good cup of tea is the stuff of heaven - but it has to be the good stuff.. made the right way:)
good books, music, and film - it is hard to imagine life without the incredible sensory inputs from your fellow man
soft things - I love textures! I love silk, warm super soft socks, quality rugs, kitten fur, and other singular sensations
the internet - I can't believe this is on my list but having the world's collective consciousness at your fingertips is such a thing!!! I used to be a library hound when I was a kid (okay, I used to be a nerd), the web is like the world's biggest library, at your fingertips...I am fascinated.
really yummy food - I have eaten enough crap to realize I don't function well on it...I need fresh produce and tasty creations to function well!