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My self-summary
***Please do not ask for my number in an effort to "sext", send dick pics, get pics etc. It's fucking tacky. It seems to be the name of the game on here since I rejoined.

With that said, I must say it's been a long time since I've updated this thing. I'd like to think I'm wiser and more mature. But I realize I can still be a silly asshole.

You see, I'm done with boring dates. And seeing who the next best person is. I want to find my opposite and balance. I want to be the sugar to someone's lemon drop, the bitter taste of grapefruit mixed with the sweetness of prosecco. The lime to the tequila. Clearly I'm an alcoholic doing a real bad job at hiding it. I'm not into coffee dates. I don't even drink that crap at work.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm trying to figure it out. In the meantime, I'm working in advertising and trying to keep my sanity together. Advertising and sanity don't usually pair well together but I think I'm doing a pretty good job!
I’m really good at
Fun. I am super social and outgoing and look for the same in my friends.
I am also really good at trying to pursue 20 things at the same time. Patience and focus are not my strongest points.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm intense. Insecure. At times, I'm that super strong "don't mess with me dude" to the panicky, anxious "oh my god where's my SOCK? I need THAT sock or the world might END!" All wrapped in one. Might as well get it out now.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like food that makes my tongue sing, laugher till it hurts, and dancing my ass off without having to twerk. Thank sweet baby Jesus I'm not 21 anymore.
The six things I could never do without
My best friends who deal with my shit
Photo essays
My courage
I spend a lot of time thinking about
To me, the most important thing in life is making truly meaningful connections with people. Although I am a social butterfly, I don't do surface level friendships that well. I really get off on getting to know someone and understanding their values and what inspires them and makes them tick. It may have to something to do with the fact that I am a researcher by nature (and profession) - but I also believe that there really is no point in calling someone a friend unless you can truly feel safe and comfortable around them - no matter how high or low you are feeling that day. I am very forthcoming with my feelings and my ideas - I wear my thoughts and heart on my sleeve, perhaps to a fault. However, I really don't know how to be any other way. Let's just say I don't hold back and I would expect the same of you.

So this may sound weird, but I have found some of the most interesting and enjoyable times to be with people and talking about things like religion and social constructs and the "why?" of how humans behave. Don't get me wrong, I can tell disgusting jokes with the best of them and I have the sense of a humor of a teenage boy. But this natural curiosity I have around human behavior is probably why I majored in anthropology - duh.

I really couldn't tell you WHO I'm looking for but I do know I am looking for something serious. If you are just interested in sex or dating a bunch of people at the same time, then I'm not the one for you. I'm in no rush to get married or anything like that, but I am craving a relationship that gives me joy, support, comfort and some physical satisfaction....ok a lot of it.
On a typical Friday night I am
music. dancing. drinking. hollerin'. making people uncomfortable and making even more people laugh.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Not a chance
You should message me if
you're smart - I love to read and being a life long learner is really important. And please have your shit together or some semblance thereof. Also, you have to at least like music and be wiling to go check out live acts. You must like good food and you can't be boring. I am NOT into sitting around and watching TV. It depresses me. Werd