38Sunnyvale, United States
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My self-summary
I'm not really here to socialize. I just made a login for the sake of having one, for quizzes and such.

I'm not looking for playmates at all, and my personal time is full up as it is, so please don't ask. If you're looking for online friendship, this is not the place. I'm unlikely to respond to you here.
What I’m doing with my life
I currently work as a cover artist and general person-of-use for Fantastic Fiction Publishing. You can find my work (eBooks and print) at
I’m really good at
My pattern matching is very strong. Most of what I do amounts to variations on that theme - counseling, ritual design, arts and crafts, engineering, troubleshooting, dream interpretation, divination, gaming and puzzles, etc.
The first things people usually notice about me
My hair, my "warm" personality, my laugh, my tendency to talk way too much about geeky things and religion.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Lately I'm practically evangelical about Seanan McGuire's Toby Daye series. My first and last love will always be Lewis Carrol's Alice. I collect the works of Neil Gaiman and Brian and Wendy Froud. High fantasy in general is a safe bet for fiction.

Most of the non-fiction I read these days is religious studies or psychology.

Movies I'm not as deeply into, but again, high fantasy draws me. I'm unlikely to miss any Tolkien/Jackson movies.

I don't watch a lot of TV, but when I do it's things like Doctor Who or the Food Network.

My favorite music is probably folk music, especially Celtic folk music, rock 'n' reel like Alexander James Adams, Tricky Pixie, and Avalon Rising. I've got a soft spot for both filk, protest music, and show tunes too. But really anything with a good melody and interesting lyrics is fair game.

Food? Anyone who knows me can tell you: Bring on the basil pesto and feta cheese. Lamb and squash with yogurt meat sauce. Caramel, custard, spice cake, or pie for dessert please. Chai makes me happy - anything with cinnamon, cloves, and nutmeg is delightful. I love most Mediterranean cuisines, but can't do spicy chiles at all.
Six things I could never do without
love, sleep, caffeine, cheese, craft supplies, learning
I spend a lot of time thinking about
You can cut out the "about" part. I spend a lot of time thinking. Perhaps too much, even. I'm frequently accused of over-analyzing.

Why else would I answer all these questions for a profile I don't intend to respond to?

I'm honest, though - if you ask me what I'm thinking, I'll usually tell you exactly what. If I ask you what you're thinking, it's not a trick question, I really AM curious what was going through your head JUST THEN.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hesitantly learning to cook under the guidance of my lover, hanging out with him and his partner, and either preparing for weekend religious commitments, or heading home to my partner and metamour.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My morbid curiosity kicks in long before my squick. (If I admit it here, it's not even remotely private, now is it?)
You should message me if
You don't mind that I won't answer unless I already know you from somewhere else.

I really am only on OKCupid for the questions and quizzes.

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