sirj77
39 Brooklyn, United States
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My self-summary
** My hopes fell apart, again. Back to the search. :( **
* Not able to see Likes, if I interest you, Speak Up! :) *
Since no one wants to be bothered to read profiles anymore, figure it's time to slim it down. The goal is for a non-judgmental christian (or at least spiritual and open minded) woman for a real relationship, best friend, other half. A certain empathy would be helpful, so you can understand where I'm coming from. Some similar interests and likes would be great. Looking for someone within about an hour drive (speed limits count) of Brooklyn MI. Long distance never seem to work for me, because it never seems to get better. I'm not looking for friends zones, hookups, or mind games, be real and serious please.
What I’m doing with my life
I work at an auto parts store in Brooklyn. It's not ideal, but the work environment and people are better than some jobs I've had. I'm not a "car" person, but I know enough to be dangerous (which is often more than our customers). lol Beyond that, living life like most everyone else. I'm not a partier or anything like that, such things are lost on me.
I’m really good at
I'm good with computers and general electronics. I have an eye for landscaping (from a few years working in that). I also run sound at my church. I've been told I'm I good friend and an awesome guy. I recently started experimenting with writing poetry, and it seems I'm good at it (according to a good friend, I'm my worst critic some times). I have what I've done so far available online, if that is of interest.
The first things people usually notice about me
Probably that I'm short for a guy. That didn't use to bother me, until it seemed to bother everyone else, and some how made me less human. News flash, I didn't get to choose my height, and I can't change it. The only thing that can change is what you think of if, and that is up to you. What you see isn't all there is, or the only thing that matters.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
About anything sci-fi, action, adventure, fantasy. I'm an an equal opportunity geek, I prefer Star Trek.
The six things I could never do without
Air, water, food, hope, love... the usual. Oh, I probably wasn't suppose to take that quite so literally was I? Still, there is a difference between what I "want", and what I NEED. Watch a show called Revolution, it got me thinking what really need to live life.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why my younger friends can find their other other half, and all I can seem to find is scammers or women wanting sex. There has got to be someone out there, but I feel like I'm exhausting all my search options, and just keep getting the same bs. Does anyone want anything real anymore? I'd really like to be worth something to someone, friends say I have a lot to offer someone, if they'd give me a chance.
On a typical Friday night I am
I usually go over to my parents, have dinner, watch a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Sorry, I'm not going to give women anything more to beat me over the head with, they do that enough as it is. Besides, I hear women like a mystery. :) We can definitely talk about it when the times comes. :)
You should message me if
If you are serious about a real relationship...
Unfortunately, with the arrival for the new year, I have concluded me making an effort to make first contact is not appreciated in the least (which seems ironic on a singles site). I'm not crude, and I just try to start a conversation. Responses range from silence, to judgement, to effectively telling me I'm too messed up and should seek help and I should be less honest. Uh, wow, that's a bit hypocritical, isn't it? I am human, and not "perfect", and imperfect people don't have any right pointing out the flaws of others just so they can feel better, that's just childish. Relationship is a partnership, understanding, consideration, communication, and yes, working things out (means we won't get along 100% of the time, because we are individuals). It has to start some where, before you get trust, and love. If you can't understand that, well, that's really too bad. I'm done going out on a limb just to have cut from under me. Let ME know if you are interested, drop me a line. Don't just hit 'like' and go on your way, I'm not going to waste anymore money on singles sites to just to see wish-washy likes. Communicate! :) If you made it all the way to the end, my name is Jason, thank you for your time. :)
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