sirj77
40Brooklyn, United States
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My self-summary
*Scammers really make it really hard to trust people on the internet. If I interest you, leave a message, I'm not paying for likes. I need a real woman that actually cares, and isn't playing mind games. I'm sick of being lied to, or ignored. I not here to hurt anyone, just trying to connect. *
The goal is for a non-judgmental christian (or at least spiritual and open minded) woman for a real relationship, best friend, other half. I understand its gotta start somewhere, I have a big heart, I'm tired of getting of it broken by scammers and fakes. A certain empathy would be helpful, so you can understand where I'm coming from. I'm a bit of a hopeless romantic. Some similar interests and likes would be great (common ground). Looking for someone within about an hour drive (speed limits count) of Brooklyn MI. Long distance never seems to work for me, because it never seems to get better, no cam-chat, no visit, no phone calls, no effort. I'm not looking for hookups, or mind games. I'm looking for someone real, emotionally and physically available, that actually cares about someone besides themselves. I'm looking for a real connection.
I’m really good at
I'm good with computers and general electronics. I have an eye for landscaping (from a few years working in that). I also run sound at my church. I've been told I'm I good friend and an awesome guy. I recently started experimenting with writing poetry, and it seems I'm good at it (according to a good friend, I'm my worst critic some times). I have what I've done so far available online, if that is of interest.
The first things people usually notice about me
Probably that I'm short for a guy. That didn't use to bother me, until it seemed to bother everyone else, and some how made me less human. News flash, I didn't get to choose my height, and I can't change it. The only thing that can change is what you think of if, and that is up to you. What you see isn't all there is, or the only thing that matters.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
About anything sci-fi, action, adventure, fantasy. I'm an an equal opportunity geek, I prefer Star Trek. I enjoy video games, more of a PC gamer, but I do have an Xbox one. I prefer open world/sandbox type games, kind of outgrew the shooters, though still enjoy one from time to time.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why my younger friends can find their other half, and all I can seem to find is scammers or women wanting sex. There has got to be someone out there. Does anyone want anything real anymore? I get that attraction is a thing, I'm not dead, but did common courtesy die? I'd really like to be a woman's priority, instead of just an option.
On a typical Friday night I am
Nothing carved in stone. I usually go over to my parents, have dinner, watch a movie or Netflix.
You should message me if
If you are serious about a real relationship, or possibly know of a woman that might be interested. Word of mouth use to be the only social networking, so I've been trying to encourage referrals besides this. Singles sites are proving to be a joke, with all the fakes, spam, scams, and users.
I have concluded me making an effort to make first contact is not appreciated in the least (which seems weird on a singles site). Don't just hit 'like' and go on your way, I'm not going to waste anymore money on singles sites to just to see wish-washy likes. Start a conversation! Communication isn't that hard if you mean it. :)
I need to feel important to someone too, and seems like every woman I've been interested in turns into a self-centered B* with double standards. Harsh I know, but true. It shouldn't be this difficult, and should be a match out there somewhere. How we meet, is beyond me. :(
If you made it all the way to the end, my name is Jason, thank you for your time. :)
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