sjmusic
48 San Jose, United States
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My self-summary
I'm a guy, so I like guy things but I also love to cook and I don't mean only grilling.
Avid fisherman and can't get enough camping.
Eventually I'll get a dog, move to southern Mexico and build a ranch house near the coast.
I'm a musician & that doesn't mean I like karaoke (though I do) but I also play guitar and drums.

I am looking for submissive woman who is looking for a dominant loving man.
Don't misunderstand me, I doesn't matter to me what the activity is, if it is something you are introducing me to, or just something
at which you're better than I am (grrrr) j/k, but seriously, I have no problem taking a learner's seat. I mean I feel sorry for the
jackasses that think they know everything, how do they ever expect to learn anything at all?
I have a bit of a soft spot for people with actual "personality disorders" as defined by the DSM 5, not that I'm looking for a relationship
with such a twisted individual, as a sociopath or narcissist, but the sheer abuse one must suffer at a young age in order for this to occur
just breaks my heart. And before you want to jump down my throat and say that hasn't been proven, let me say this; How many actually
mentally ill people of the cluster B type have you known, and if any how severely were they abused as a child? Exactly...

Moving on, I'm a great cook/chef, especially with anything involving some kind of meat, but I don't like to do it all that often anymore.
I write, poetry (duh, who doesn't?) I've been published, i also write songs, (copywritten material) short stories of all kinds, and have begun writing my first book. Maybe you can be my muse.

I want to touch on what I said about defining relationships. If you think about it for a minute, all the relationships we have from super shallow to deep and enriching (hopefully), if you had to, you could sit down and within 5-10 minutes have a fairly clear synopsis of the relationship.
If you find you can't do this with any relationship, chances are pretty good, either you or the other party is a toxic person.
Okay, I'm done writing for now.

I am Dom.
I'm not looking for a wife or girlfriend.
I am looking for baby.
What I’m doing with my life
Living it
I’m really good at
Bunch of stuff, but mostly answering silly questions with long boring essay like answers.
The first things people usually notice about me
I exist
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books, the kind with pages.
Movies, the ones with actors that I can sit through.
Music, most outside of rap.
Food, Feed me!
The six things I could never do without
Oxygen
Water
Food
Insert Maslow's hierarchy of needs here
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Colors
Is déjà vu simply reverse premonition?
On a typical Friday night I am
Doing something that involves breathing
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My socks have to match
You should message me if
You want to know more

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