35San Mateo, United States
Join today
Find great matches with our advanced matching system!
Join today
Find great matches with our advanced matching system!
My self-summary

I'm an Australian. At the start of 2013 I decided to turn my whole world upside down, and I moved the Bay Area in July of that year. I came to join an awesome circle of friends and to work in the valley.

I came to the United States with two missions in mind: to meet interesting people, platonically or otherwise; and to meet like-minded people who are polyamorous like myself. And overall, I'm looking for adventure and trouble.

Sometimes I take myself far too seriously and I can be intense. But I'm also the master of self-reflection and self-improvement. I'm getting better.

I'm in a semi-serious relationship gin & tonic.
What I’m doing with my life
At the beginning of 2013 I decided that it was time to change things up, and move away from my comfortable but soul-killing job. I decided to turn my whole life upside down and move to the Bay Area. I quit my job with no job to go to, but found work a few months later. The first few months post-move were crazy, and now things are settling down leaving more time for the social life.

In 2015 I became single again after a 6 year relationship. Just like in 2013, I decided to change life dramatically and "rebooted" my social life and general life goals.

I also made a pact at the start of 2012 to exercise a lot more as a regular part of my live and to eat and live healthier, and it's paying off. I'm in love with the gym again, and I'm fitter now than I've been in a long time.
I’m really good at
Useless trivia.


Discovering great music.

Discovering awesome television.

Engaging in long conversations.

Dirty jokes.


Using the oxford comma.
The first things people usually notice about me
My beard.

My voice and broad shoulders.

The Australian accent.

My cologne.
Six things I could never do without
My notebook & a good pen.
New experiences.
My friends.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How do I continue to meet interesting people.

Whether I should use the Tú or Usted form.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out with friends at a bar/restaurant, watching TV, writing, or at the Citadel.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I put a lot of effort into my OKC messages.
You should message me if
You're kinky, poly, like big & tall men and want a friendship along with the benefits.

You're spontaneous, fun and willing to show me how to get into trouble.

You have a FL account.

You're looking for sexy friends, but may also be open to something a little more committed.

You want to debate about how Christopher Eccleston was an underrated Doctor.

This is appealing: I want to sit on polished floors in a loft, smoke cigars, drink bourbon and listen to 70's rock and roll on vinyl. Maybe you do too.
The two of us