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My self-summary
I love stupid jokes, asking interesting questions, playing devil's advocate and art for art's sake. I believe the way to appreciate the beauty in something is to understand it, so moments of insight are my most valued experiences and I find the concept of faith repellant. Also, I fucking love science! I believe in the power of words, that each utterance is a concious act with potentially profound consequences for the world.

I am commitedly polyamourous (consensual nonmonogamy), based somewhat around the ideas in the wonderful book: 'The Ethical Slut'. Communication, negotiation, patience and a genuine joy in your partner's or partners' happiness are the cornerstones of my relationships.

I'm looking for someone intelligent and passionate who's up for whiling away the hours in stimulating conversation.
What I’m doing with my life
Acting! I'm currently in full time actor training at the Adelaide College of the Arts and I love it. I have finally found (after a long time drifting around in hospitality jobs) what I want to do with myself. Whatever happens I want to be involved in theatre making, whether I'm directing shows on Broadway or just taking tickets for Fringe shows, I don't care! I have big dreams of going to London or New York when my course is over in 2 years time.

But really, I'm trying to learn something, I'm trying to change and to grow. I reckon that any time in our lives where things aren't changing (especially ourselves) then we have no real way of marking the time and it slips by us. So, I never want to get too comfortable!
I’m really good at
Articulating and expressing myself. Understanding and getting along with people, even when we've just met (I guess that's why I'm in hospitality!). Asking the right question. Picking the right moment. Remembering (lots) of useless information.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm as silly as I am smart. I'm optimistic. I'm terribly disorganised. I'm open. I'm fond of purple. I'm English.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books/Authors (in no particular order)// If on a Winter's Night a Traveller, Catch-22, Paradise Lost, Shakespeare, Evelyn Waugh, Neil Stephenson, Kim Stanley Robinson, F Scott Fitzgerald, Joseph Conrad, Tolkein, The Beach, Life of Pi, Wicked, Ender's Game (to name but a few!).

Movies// Moon, The Big Lebowski (actually everything by the Cohen brothers), Fight Club, The Royal Tenenbaums (yeah almost everything by Wes Anderson too), Koyaanisqatsi, Dead Leaves, Akira, Lost in Translation, Dawn of the Dead (remake), Spirited Away (& most Studio Ghibli output).

Music// Radiohead, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Postal Service, Death Cab for Cutie, Tool, Perfect Circle, Boards of Canada, Four Tet, Goldfrapp, The Knife, Pixies, Placebo, Portishead, Nick Cave, Leonard Cohen.
Six things I could never do without
Theatre; sex; friendship; conversation; the internet; video games
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What kind of artist I want to be and what I want to say with my art. Where technology could take us in 10 or 20 years. What we could be achieving if we weren't all so messed up. What's it like to be other people and what makes people do what they do. Reminding myself I am on a tiny ball of rock in a unimaginably large universe.

Hmmm... I might be quite an abstract thinker, I either think in infinities, or about a week ahead.

So, more practically:

The script or monologue I'm working on. My relationships/frienships. Sex. Not having any money. Trying to remember what I may have forgotten to do or where I might have to be!
On a typical Friday night I am
Waiting tables in a fancy restaurant. If I have the night off, ideally I'll be sharing drinks and epic chats with good friends, maybe after seeing a show.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have the weirdest soft spot for trashy pop music and TV. I get Taylor Swift lyrics stuck in my head and walk around singing them without realising. Also, I have watched all of True Blood and The OC :S
You should message me if
You like the slightly dry, slightly silly British sense of humour.
You want to have a long, involved, stimulating conversations about the nature of things/state of the world/being a human.
You are passionate about life, love and laundry.
You like to share.
The two of us