60 Fargo, United States
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My self-summary
I'll take care of me-for you and you take care of yourself for me.
If you understand this, we're halfway there.

I know and cherish the value of commitment. I'm solid and stable
I wake up every morning and in that first conscious 'moment', I know it's going to be a good day because that is always the path I have chosen for myself.
I'm an honest person. I'm loyal, open minded and still willing to learn new things. Learning should never end (and I've been schooled a number of times.... :)
I value intelligence and the sharing of ideas. I have strong opinions on most topics but I don't mind being proven wrong on occasion.
I value open mindedness, self-discipline and creativity. I like how, as I've gotten older, I have fewer filters. Ask me a question and I won't 'game' you with the answer. If you share a secret with me, it will remain so. My public persona is the same as my private one.
I'm less interested in how many promotions you've received and more so in how your hand fits in mine.
I don't seek perfection, I'm just looking for positive momentum.
What I’m doing with my life
I've pushed out of my comfort zone both personally and professionally, pushing my limits, raising the bar. I'm using my creative skills at work by resurrecting a struggling department and exceeding old sales goals. It's satisfying and spontaneous and I'm being recognized for my contribution.
I'm training physically, both for longevity and perhaps a 10K this summer
I’m really good at
I'm really good with my hands. I design and build things. I can paint a house or toenails with equal proficiency. I'm good at making people feel good about themselves and making them laugh. That makes me feel good as well.
The first things people usually notice about me
I have a great smile and I'm not afraid to use it. I 'm told I have a soothing voice
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Here we go....books, not so much
Movies action adventure, sci-fi, equal helpings of drama and comedy (I may refuse, however, to watch any Adam Sandler movie and I'm not sorry about it)
Music Rock -70's through now, Blues, some jazz, some country, no opera whatsoever
Food: Mexican, Chinese and I so want to like sushi so far, not happenin'
The six things I could never do without
My 3 great kids
A well tuned 6 string
a good hockey game
a hard workout
Ok, I admit it.... chocolate
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Creating the best ever-improving version of me oh, and world peace
On a typical Friday night I am
In the winter, I'm hollering in a hockey arena ( my kids taught me to love the game) In the summer, I'm by my pond teasing the koi, transplanting perennials for the umpteenth time or laying by the fire pit waiting for Orion's belt to arc across the sky. You know, the usual stuff.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
After the first 300 OK cupid questions I answered, anything close to resembling private is pretty much out the window. No secrets here...just ask
You should message me if'd like to start a conversation. think our match percentages are close enough to be compatible yet our differences will keep things interesting.

...maybe, just as you hit 'send' ,you have that tingle that makes you think you're in high school again.