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My self-summary
World-weary but optimistic, romantic straight-ish cis guy. Unfocused creator. Usually wearing a tie. Looking for a challenge. I want to change my mind. I want to be one half of a kinky team.
What I’m doing with my life
I play my guitar every single day. I'm writing erotic and other types of fiction. I like to maintain a small number of close friendships.

I have many goals and ambitions, none of which have anything to do with work. I'm told it's a very European attitude.
I’m really good at
Laughing, making others feel comfortable, listening and giving my full attention.
The first things people usually notice about me
"That guy will just not stop laughing."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music: Anberlin, Arcade Fire, Bon Iver, Brand New, Butch Walker, Coheed and Cambria, Daft Punk, David Gray, Death Cab for Cutie, the Decemberists, Fleet Foxes, Florence + the Machine, Fountains of Wayne, Frightened Rabbit, Girl Talk, Great Big Sea, the Hold Steady, Iron & Wine, the Joy Formidable, Jukebox the Ghost, LIGHTS, Mae, Motion City Soundtrack, MuteMath, the National, Neko Case, Nick Drake, Parachute Musical, Phoenix, Radiohead, the Shins, Tanlines, Tegan & Sara, Tokyo Police Club, the War on Drugs, Weezer, Wye Oak, Yeasayer. There's some more.

Books: My first love is Shakespeare. My second love is Dante. My third love might be Victor Hugo. Or Tolkien. I know - DWM.

Food: I'm an above average cook. I specialize in pastas, chilis, casseroles, etc. When going out I look for sushi, Thai, Mediterranean, and just about anything else.

Webcomics: Questionable Content, XKCD, Oglaf.

Podcasts: Chop Bard, Hardcore History
Six things I could never do without
Olive oil
Guitar picks
My unlimited Metro card
The Oxford comma
The CrashPad
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how to avoid the monogamy trap.
You should message me if
-you're equally at home in an East Village bar or watching Netflix in bed.

-you lipsync when you wear headphones.

-you're a lady-type person with armpit hair.

-we're best friends, we just haven't met yet.

-you're a world class cuddler.
The two of us