43Tucson, United States
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My self-summary
Moved to Tucson after a long time freezing my ass off in MN.
I came here for school and a change in scenery.
Looking to make friends and more.

My priorities are that Life comes first. Work is second. I believe that there is more to life than work.

I’m typically very laid back, and can be a big smart ass at times.
I certainly am not a type A personality.

If guys were literally dogs, not just figuratively, I’d be a cross between a Shepherd and a Lab. Very playful, loving, affectionate, understanding and forgiving. Yet I’m also am extremely protective of my friends.

I can appear to be a bit distant at times when Introversion and Aspergers kicks in. It's just me being lost in thought.

I can come off as shy at first. Trust me. I'm not. Just ask more of me and I'll open up.

I guess that's the basics.
If you want to know anything, just ask.
What I’m doing with my life
Looking for that balance between work and play and relaxation and indulgence and simply living life.

I need no convincing to go lounge poolside in Mexico or Vegas. When it's too cold outside to leave the comfort of my couch, I camp out watching movies all weekend.

I've traveled a lot.
I'd live in London, Prague or Puerto Vallarta if I could find work there.
I’m really good at
Procrastinating and being lazy.
Focusing and getting shit done when motivated.
The first things people usually notice about me
I've been told that my face lies. I look angry or sad or grumpy or unhappy when I'm not. Again... it's the aspergers.
At the same time... it does help my poker face. :)

I’m comfortable in silence, yet I can talk your ear off if I get too much caffeine.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Book wise... I read David Sedaris, Jeremy Clarkson, Anthony Bordain and whatever else grabs my funny bone.

Daily it's... Gizmodo (and sister sites), Thought Catalog, The Minimalists, Zen Habits, Mark Daily Apple, BBC news, Economist and various British rag sheets and random blogs on a daily basis.

My humor leans anywhere from cynical to slapstick. Thus I watch Anthony Bordain, Ace of Cakes, Good Eats, Mr. Bean, old cartoons, Pixar movies and The Three Stooges whenever I encounter them.

For some odd reason, I'll stop to watch any silent movie also.

Music wise... I'm all over the map.
Lately, I've been rotating Gogol Bordello, Gary Clark Jr., Kaki King and Infected Mushroom.
Six things I could never do without
1) the dog
2) the jeep
Both have been all over the USA and Mexico these past 3 years.
3) the ability to laugh at and get past the seemingly insurmountable hurdles encountered in life
4) the warm hugs and hearing "I missed you" when you see an old friend.
5) traveling
6) passport - need it to travel
I spend a lot of time thinking about
When I do think, I think way too much and too often.
About anything and everything.
Then there's times I'm just off meditating.
On a typical Friday night I am
Still figuring things out as I settle into Tucson.

The normal hanging with my friends, out to movies, eating, relaxing, drinking and bullshitting until the sun comes up.
It varies.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Nothings really private with me. You want to know, just ask.
You should message me if
My brain fumbles at times on what to say... so first moves are appreciated.

If you have the willingness to laugh with or at least at me when I'm acting like a juvenile delinquent... that would be needed.
If you can do that and like to make me laugh and smile too, better yet.
If you can handle not being the sole focus of my existence.
Can you accept that I may only give you 2 days (or hours) notice that my wanderlust has kicked and I'm off to "where ever" until I get back (when ever that may be)?
Or your are willing to pack a bag, grab the passport and come with.
If you can go with the flow when being my friend or more... whether it's the random life I lead, the aspergers, or whatever.
The two of us