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My self-summary
Little Bird , I miss you. Thank you for showing me the path I need to walk.

** I screwed things up with a potential forever partner. I am not looking for anything more than friends right now. I need to work on me. If you want to help I am up for being friends **

I am an independent self sustaining entity that loves the company of other individuals. I care greatly for those around me, but am selective about who I let in. I spend a majority of my time working for a construction company to specializes in high end apartment renovations as a project manager. Additionally, with a couple of friends of mine in a company they started that creates websites, mobile apps, content management systems, and provides SEO/SEM & paid search services.

My free time is spent with my friends and partners, usually out doing something like Mountain Unicyling or sailing or climbing or blues dancing if I can help it. I value the foods I eat, so I take care in selecting them for the most part and enjoy cooking great food for those around me, and appreciate the same in return. I would much rather have you tell me something I did not like, rather than find out that you did not mean what you said to me.

I am Polyamorus!
This does not mean I have to be in a poly relationship, only that it is my default. This means a great deal of things to a great number of people. I encourage you to ask me what it means to me as I don't feel I will ever be able to textualize it sufficiently. I am very open with who I am and what I am interested in.


I am open, entertaining, and reliable.
What I’m doing with my life
Rock Climbing ( technically bouldering mostly)
Blues dancing
TEA ( miro, remedy, kuanyin)
getting into torubble
enjoying my new diggs in Wedgewood

I love my membership to Stone Gardens in Ballard and go climbing a few of times a week. I am usually going with a few people and run into more of the regulars that have become some great friends now. Please feel free to join/ run into me there.

Other than those, I spend a lot of time making my friends happy, either by cooking or dragging them out for tea, or an evening somewhere where the drinks and the atmosphere are nice.

All of this is just in case my plan to become an alien overlord doesn't work out. Can I get a Nanuu Nanuu!
I’m really good at
I shortened this to; this question leads me to be far too sarcastic and or arrogant. So I say come and find out :).

"My friend tells me that I'm incredibly perceptive, and will probably pick up on how she feels before she does. She would also like everyone to know how freaking amazing my hugs are." ( she also told me I was not allowed to remove this or she would brain me. I replied " the same thing we do every night Pinky, try to take over the world."
The first things people usually notice about me
I have always liked the way friend of mine filled out this section about me once, so I have never really been inclined ot change it. enjoy :)

He smells awesome. Seriously. Also, his eyes are kind of scary on occasion. And he's completely unapologetic. About everything. Which is pretty cool. AND he's a nerd. Seriously, swoon now.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I've read everything by Frank Herbert, a lot of stuff by Kafka and Ursula K. Le Guinn, and occasionally The Dresden Files and Neal Stephenson. I tend to enjoy sci-fi that explores political, social or linguistic change, which explains the choices above. I also enjoy works relating to political and social theory (Hobbes, Locke and Rousseau are good examples.). My friend had to coax me into reading Douglas Adams, but I'm glad she did, you better be :P .

When it comes to movies, I can be really picky and will tend to gravitate toward sci-fi - Serenity is at the top and I strongly recommend it. If you're as interesting as I hope, you might have heard of Farscape and be just as worshipful of Jim Henson as I am.... Monty Python makes me happy, as do Flash Gordon, Snatch, Pulp Fiction, Indiana Jones, Stargate, Back to the Future and Star Wars.

I always end up just being really general with this section because I would rather show you and share my music with you and have you do the same. Long answer short I love old dirty blues, I love rock, I love alternative, and I have had a huge stint on Brit rock/punk/alt from the 80s and 90's lately ( the pigeon detectives, hard fi, social distortion, ect). If you want in my pants within ten seconds of meeting me, know who the Zutons and the Kooks are. Blues music has become a huge part of my life, I recently decided that XM radio was worth the money just for the "bluesville" station.

Food is awesome. I cannot get enough of what Seattle has to offer in the way of reasonably priced amazing food. The restaurants I know just might blow you away if you give me a chance to take you there. I love Beth's Cafe on Aurora for serving up grease with a side of hostility, but I also enjoy great food like Volterra and Rays Boathouse just to name some staples. I prepare food myself given enough time and energy, I really like Thai and tea, if you have not been to Remedy, or Miro yet, I will take you on our first date without fail. On a Thai note, there is a restaurant Jahnjay, best freaking curry in the city; it's in Wallingford if you're interested. If you truly want an amazing Seattle food experience go to Voltera in Ballard.
The six things I could never do without
1) Spell check (or at least friends to edit my
profile and my essays)
2) My computer
3) Cooking and people to share it with
4) Blues dancing and sailing ( don't care if thats two :P )
5) TEA! TEA! TEA!...oh and TEA!
6) Someone cute to spend my nights and devote some of my attention to.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Interesting things; however, I'm more of a doer than a thinker.
That's a lie, I just choose to ignore the thoughts and go with the
interesting polycosmic flow of things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hopefully making dinner with you :). I am more than likely out Blues Dancing, with epic friends, to epic music. You should join me.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
It's likely that I'd admit anything as it comes up, I'm not big on secrets.
You should message me if
You are willing to be honest with yourself about who you are, what you want, and can communicate that. If you practice nurturance and want to get better at it. I am working on being a more receptive and safe listener. If you are not ok with understanding I am making progress towards being a more secure functioning person in relationships and the emotional growth that goes with this, then I am not the right person for you.

I am nice, just do it :P