I guess I should say I am looking for a partner to compliment me on my journey. Someone that treats love as the ability to allow and encourage your partner to grow emotionally ( and maybe spiritually but that word has so much BS tied to it I hesitate with its use). I want to have a partner in the truest sense. I am looking to meet anyone that wants to get to know me. If that's friends, so be it. If it's lovers, cool. Really open to the discussion of finding what we each want and celebrating it.
I have been poly, might still be interested in that if you approach your relationships from Emotional Attachment Theory on the secure side. I am distancing myself from Avoidants at this time for serious LTR considerations.
I am open, entertaining, and reliable.
Little Bird , I miss you. Thank you for showing me the path I need to walk.
I shortened this to; this question leads me to be far too sarcastic and or arrogant. So I say come and find out :).
"My friend tells me that I'm incredibly perceptive, and will probably pick up on how she feels before she does. She would also like everyone to know how freaking amazing my hugs are." ( she also told me I was not allowed to remove this or she would brain me. I replied " the same thing we do every night Pinky, try to take over the world."
Ursula K Leguin
Dune, Guardian's of the Galaxy, Day the Earth Stood Still(1951), more to come.
Stranger Things, GOT, Westworld, Scrubs, The Killing, Adventure Time, Sense8, Luke Cage, Doctor Who, Farscape, BSG, X-Files, Twin Peaks (cannot stress enough how cool it is that both of those are cooking back, especially TP considering the end of the movie), more to come
Alt, Blues, Rock, as yet determined gere. This is a big catagory jsut go check out The Georgia Flood, The Zutons, Lou Rawls, Howlin Wolf, and the Beattles to start.
Tasks: I always have some freaking project I am working on, and often come up with another dozen along the way to its completion.
Activity: I suck at sitting still until I am done.
People: While I score 50/50 on most of the Myers-Briggs tests I get energy from being around people often and love to capitalize on friends.
Animals: Never enough pets. Although I can tell you why a hedgehog is a bad idea.
Secure Connection: I seek out the secure connection of others. I create my own and try to pull people away from avoidant and anxious connections.
And if not that, why it's so hard to find someone I am as crazy about as I remember feeling about people in the past.
You are willing to be honest with yourself about who you are, what you want, and can communicate that. If you practice nurturance and want to get better at it. I am working on being a more receptive and safe listener. If you are not ok with understanding I am making progress towards being a more secure functioning person in relationships and the emotional growth that goes with this, then I am not the right person for you.
I am nice, just do it :P