smahSbackwords
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My self-summary
CCC COOL CALM AND COLLECTED I work hard and am an avid reader. Outside the box is where you might find me but grounded as well... I love poetry cafes art exhibits music venues some sports and I play chess but no grand master at all...

TRUE STORY...
When I was much younger my son's mother and I decided to part ways like alot of couples do. At this time I had to find a place of my own and landed this one room studio apt that was so small you had to go outside to change your mind, for real...
My son would come over on the weekends and stay with me and she would handle the rest during the week...

One night he and I was doing our daddy son thing, we wer going to sleep. He had this weird habit that he did when he would sleep next to me... he would put his finger in my ear as he dozed off...lol
I would pull it out and he would put it right back... it was so funny...

We were talking and I mentioned to him how big he was getting and how I had to get us a bigger place so we could move around...
He says to me... half sleep with his soft voice that " Don't worry dad if I have to I'll sleep on the floor for you"

I know we all like prop our children up but that moment was very spiritual and organic to me.... and it changed my life.
He's now 20 attending nursing school.

This is not a father of the year story by any means, actually it was alot of support given from family and friends around us... It's just how we did it back then.
When I was his age it was the same...

What changed you life?

Value isn't what you have or own...
Real value is how functional you are with nothing...
Since we can't function on nothing... so that becomes the scale...
How low can you go? How deep can you go?
You can enter the world but not become dependent on the world...
I know not easy to figure out 🤔💬but such is life... lol

Brainfeeder💭🍵🍴
What I’m doing with my life
Building a strong foundation for myself and my only son...
I’m really good at
Listening... being a good friend...
The first things people usually notice about me
My strong some what menacing facial expression lol... The hair...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
48 LAWS OF POWER, FROM SUPERMAN TO MAN, BEHOLD THE PALE HORES...
Six things I could never do without
Gods essence,my son, family, friends, a healthy outlook on life, the ability to help others...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
LIFE... THE GOOD AND THE BAD
On a typical Friday night I am
I WORK ALOT... NEXT!!!!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
IF I TELL YOU IT WOULDN'T BE PRIVATE WOULD IT? 😂
You should message me if
YOU LOVE TO LAUGH AND THINK AT THE SAME TIME...
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