I am looking for a special lady to build a relationship with. A special lady who walked away from the past and never goes back, enjoys the present and looks forward to tomorrow with a positive attitude. It normally takes 3 meetings or more to figure out potential mates. If the first meeting sizzles, chances are it will not fizzle. Acceptable means 3 dates to figure out partnership potential. And please post more pictures of you and not your beloved pet, your expensive shoes, your house or mansion, or your expensive car if you're not in the picture. I'm sure you love all of them. I'm interested in you and not what you have. Sorry, I'm just being honest.
I have a positive attitude, happy inside and out, and have an 'easy going simple guy' personality with a good sense of humor, level headed and fun to be with. Never a dull moment with me. I joke and I will make you smile and laugh - a lot. I am an easy going guy who does not sweat small stuff, very sociable and love meeting people - 'never a plant in the corner'.
Divorced 23 years. I have two grown children, on their own, and off my payroll HA. They live far away (SF bay area and NYC) and we visit often. Maybe I will be on their payroll someday ha ha ha....
I don't have baggage (I left it at a train station in NYC 23 years ago and never worried about it again - I think someone took it, ha). I am a good listener. I do not believe in astrological compatibility but if you do, I respect it.
In my younger days, I lived in several places - Hawaii, San Francisco, Michigan, and NYC where my family lives -and now Orange County. I travelled the 49 states and Puerto Rico by plane, train and bus (not been to Alaska though). I have to admit I have not been to Europe or on a cruise ship. I have three remaining to do in my bucket list of ten items: sky diving, driving a race car at 150 MPH in a NASCAR race track and then winning the big lottery (thinking positive).
Things I like to do to rest and relax:
Romantic weekend get aways, dancing, movies, beach, or just staying home enjoying each other's company or whatever we decide.
What I believe in:
A relationship is continuously nurtured over lifetime. A wink of love better than a butterfly kiss. I know the difference between when you say it's 'URGENT' or it's 'IMPORTANT'.
It is best to meet early to see where it goes - start early if it is going somewhere and move on early if it is going nowhere.
The road to success is always under construction. A good person is one who overlooks a broken fence and admires the flowers on the other side.
A positive approach is important. First meeting is 'meet and greet' for coffee, tea, or social drink and see where it goes - 1 hour or less. One meeting does not define compatibility or 'chemistry'. It takes time.
Life is what we make of it. OKC is a bridge to somewhere. Let's cross the bridge. To avoid disappointment, one should not have exceedingly high expectations. Take the chance - meet for coffee or tea for 20 minutes (or longer if all goes well). Play the law of averages - the more people you meet, the better the chance of finding the right one.
So always give it a try. Let's be positive.
-Friends, real friends, not acquaintances.
-Relaxing with you after a grueling day at work and not out with my friends (sometimes it should be OK, right?)
-Down time once in a while to recuperate physically and mentally
-Lots of Laughter - good for the soul and heart
-Hope and optimism - to live for
-Happy and positive attitude