INFJ-man
27 Bloomington, United States
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My self-summary
I'm an INFJ (MBTI), for those of you in the know (if you don't...google it). We tend to be "old souls" and rather complex but in a good way. I'm a committed Christian who believes in the power of the Holy Spirit to change lives. I'm here looking to find interesting gals to get to know and perhaps someone to spend the rest of my life with. Distance isn't an issue (I would enjoy the challenge of it) but faith certainly is.

DISCLAIMER

I look forward to having children some day and I intend to raise them in the faith. I'm committed to the principled christian ethic of celibacy in singleness (for both sexes) with sex reserved as a SACRED act in marriage. I've lived it, and will to continue to live it, because this what I intend to teach my children. So if sex in the short term is important to you...I'm happy to disappoint.
What I’m doing with my life
So God gave me a great job at this University. I could go on and on about how he has blessed me through this job. I'm paid well enough to be able to travel and bless others. I come from a fairly modest background and I never thought I'd have the independence/standard of living I have now. I'm really involved with my church and a campus ministry. I share a town home with three of my brothers in Christ. We do life together, and like the early church, we have everything in common and no one is in need. As good brothers should be, we're there for each other when trials and temptations come. I love every minute of it. I try to be generous with everything I have (after all, love always gives) and keeping up on finances is something that God has shown me. I have a lot of investment ideas, and should God allow it, I'd like to follow through on them and become financially independent someday. I value free time most of all and I want to have a lot of it so that I can be a good husband and father someday.
I’m really good at
1. Writing - I do a lot of journaling and essay writing. I want to start a for profit blog.
2. Being Empathetic - It's easy for me to understand where people are coming from.
3. Cooking - When you live on your own for awhile it's a great skill to have.
4. Personality theory has changed my life. Outside of the Gospel I don't know of anything that has been such a revelation. I've spent over half a decade studying Myers Briggs, Jung's Psychological Types, and enneagram theory. I feel confident that given enough time with someone that I could tell them things about themselves without them having to self-reveal.
The first things people usually notice about me
Perhaps my hair and maybe whatever I happen to be wearing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Films: I like the classics...Star Wars, Indiana Jones, Famous anti-war films like "The Deer Hunter", "Apocalpyse Now". I LOVE thrillers. I'm a big fan of the Bourne Series and Daniel Craig Bond Films. I enjoy dramas like classic "Godfather" trilogy.

Books: I read a lot of non-fiction...mostly Scripture, Christian History, Ancient Near Eastern History, Exercise, Fitness, Nutrition

When I was younger I used to be into the Narnia series and I read a lot of Star Wars books :).

Music: I'm really into British Rock. (The Beatles, The Kinks, The Who, The Smiths, Oasis). I play the drums and have a pretty good ear for music. I was in marching band and a rock n' roll group in high school. I loved it but it's taken a backseat as the study of Christian History has become really important to me. I still play the drums for my church.

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The six things I could never do without
I can do without just about everything. I can live low and I can live high but 6 things I enjoy are...

1. The Presence of the Holy Spirit (Yes the HS is real)
2. Laughter
3. Traveling (I've been to Canada, England, Jamaica, Bahamas, with possible trips to Cuba, Morocco, and Russia in the planning stages)
4. Dressing Up
5. Cuddling/affection
6. Taking the time to get to know someone
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How blessed I am. How fascinating life is.
On a typical Friday night I am
Attending my Small Group.
You should message me if
If you enjoy personality theory (MBTI, Socionics, Enneagram) and want someone who will talk your ear off about it. If you're looking for a man who will lead by serving. You really would like to have a husband who has the character and vision to create a home atmosphere where the holy spirit is welcome. If you're willing to give up material comfort for a period of time to serve Christ.

If I don't reply...please don't take it personally! I'm a busy guy. I want nothing but the best for every girl on this site but if I'm not interested...I'm not interested. It would be really pointless for me AND YOU to start an insincere conversation. If I do reply please don't think we're on the path to a relationship either. I'm not just here to find a mate...I like talking to interesting people.
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