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My self-summary
Lodi, dodi We likes to party We don't cause trouble and we don't bother nobody. We're just some ppl who're on the mic And when we rock up on the mic We rocks the mic RIGHT But, seriously, I have two little boys, 4 and 6 who are my world. Kids are great! I'm a bartender/waitress. I'm really open and loud and obnoxious and flirty and loving and friendly and sometimes vulgar and impatient and stressed out. I guess that's what most ppl are, huh. I'm really easy to talk to - there's probably only 2 subjects I'm really opinionated about - children and religion. Those are the only touchy subjects for me. Everything else is open. You could pretty much say anything you wanted, as long as you weren't being mean to me! Oh, yeah, and I'm a great person! (wink wink) I do have a boyfriend, for about a year now, and I joined this site to make some friends. Everyone I meet on the internet is usually cool, so why not?

I am soulful, understanding, and dependable
What I’m doing with my life
Just trying to make money cuz that's what you gotta do this day and age. I work at a bar, and I'm a mom, as you already know. I'm just trying to get my shit together.
I’m really good at
Being a friend. My boyfriend says that if my friends said "jump", I would say "how high", which, even though that is exaggerated, it's probably true.
The first things people usually notice about me
Is that I'm way too loud and obnoxious.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
a) I don't really have a favorite book. But I love to read. I like mystery. b) I don't really have a favorite movie, either - I love funny movies, lovey movies, and action movies. Good actors on my list include, and not in any order -Nicolas Cage, Johnny Depp, Tom Hanks - the list goes on. I like older movies - Weekend at Bernies, Mallrats, stupid/funny shit like that. c) My favorite music is something that has meaning to it. I like heavy metal. I like some rap and hip-hop. I like to sing, so I appreciate anyone with a beautiful voice. d) My favorite food is definitely not McDonalds, but dammit, I'm poor and sometimes I'm like, fuck it, let's go eat off the dollar menu. I love Italian food. I like sushi and Thai. I love fresh stir-fried vegetables. But I'm also into steak, shrimp, chicken, you know, the everyday stuff. I'm not too picky as long as it's not hot dogs and bologna. I ate enough of that shit when I was growing up!
Six things I could never do without
I could never live without my children, of course. They're the most beautiful boys ever, and no, they aren't perfect little angels, but they are beautiful and I'd die without them. I could never do without a car, cuz man it sucks to walk and bum rides from your friends. I could never do without a job cuz we all gotta have money to take care of ourselves and our loved ones. I could never do without my mom cuz she's a great person, and I already lost my dad, so losing my mom would suck. Duh. I could never do without my friends and ppl like me cuz it's really nice to be able to let it all hang out, so to speak, and BE REAL. And last, but not least, I could never do without being in love with someone who I am so comfortable with - it's unbelievable.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Money. I know it sounds really superficial, but seriously, if you have love and friendship and all the other great things in your life, but you don't have money, what do you spend time thinking about? You: Man, I wish I had more money. Me: Right????????
On a typical Friday night I am
Nine times out of ten, I am working on the weekends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Yeah, right, like I'm gonna tell you that HA!
You should message me if
You want to say hi and BE REAL!
The two of us