Other than that, I'm a pretty nice person. I love to cook, volunteer regularly, read, garden, and camp. My friends are highly cherished and I consider many of them family. I'm not terribly geeky but I do "get" a lot of geek references
I am looking for connection first, not sex first. If you understand this concept we will get along famously.
You: Kind, funny and romantic. Flowers just because and a text when you are smiling about our night before.
Let's go to your favorite hole in the wall restaurant that makes your favorite meal.
Let's laugh until our sides ache.
Mind your damned manners if you're going to message or IM me. And don't be condescending and call me dear or beautiful or gorgeous in your initial salvo. It's just stupid and I will ignore your message.
I've made some startling discoveries about myself recently. I'm mostly liking what I find!
I'm into classic rock and blues.
If you know what BDSM means.
If you know how to cook a meal.
I WILL ONLY RESPOND TO MESSAGES FROM FOLKS THAT INTEREST ME FROM THE CHICAGO AREA. CHICAGO. Thank you.