37New Berlin, United States
Join today
Find great matches with our advanced matching system!
Join today
Find great matches with our advanced matching system!
My self-summary
I prefer meeting/talking with people who have the same goals meet someone for long term not short term or really really short term...if you aren't really even looking for someone to potentially meet more than once please pass me by.

If I message you and you aren't interested please say so. Honesty is better than avoidance. I would afford you the same respect (unless I believe you are a bot) if you visit my profile multiple times SAY HELLO ALREADY!!!!! LOL

I list New Berlin as my hometown as I spend most of my time in or around there. I work hard and one of my jobs requires travel throughout the state and Midwest. I'm not looking for pen pals but to meet and hopefully find someone with long term potential. The key word is "meet." Because isn't that why we are here to expand our circle and meet people

If I contact you you need to know that I have more than likely read through your profile, understand the distance you are from me (and I'm ok with it) and am at least interested in meeting in the not so distant future, if you are not, speak up. The sooner the better.


I'm a pretty easy going guy. looking to expand my social circle and if things click find a partner. I want someone with some similar interest but different enough to show me new things and to have their own life outside of the relationship.

As for me i'm into sports especially soccer (i have traveled domestically and abroad to see soccer games, US National team, Chicago Fire, Colorado Rapids, Seattle Sounders domestically Still waiting to catch Bayern Munich play at the Allainz Arena its on my bucket list). I like football and try to make it to a packer game every couple of years. I'm fairly intelligent. (law degree shortly after i turned 26 going back for another degree in history...on hold at this point) If i had to put myself in a box, i'm the smart jock who can be sensitive and has a great sense of humor. I like someone who can be a bit assertive a great sense of humor and realizes there's more to life then partying.

What I’m doing with my life
by day I'm a title examiner (if you dont know ask) by night and weekends I'm a soccer coach. I coach one team help out and fill in when needed with a couple teams and am a director of coaching along with a goalkeeper coach. This means when I have valuable free time I like to spend it with people who can have a positive influence on my life.
I’m really good at
useless trivia...jack of all trades....master of none. Also good at making people laugh even if i'm the butt of the joke. great cook, bar tender and kisser (allegedly...though that's something you'll have to judge for yourself)

Oh and napping I'm great at that!
The first things people usually notice about me
thats a tough one...I would have to say my friends would say my empathy. and my willingness to help others. physically i guess i would say eyes or my muscles in my legs. hey soccer was good to me!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Not that i dont have favorites here but it changes so rapidly id have to update this daily or depending on my mood.

If this is truly important Id have to say my taste are eclectic.
Six things I could never do without
1) Soccer (playing/watching/ coaching helps keep me sane at times)
2) Family(close friends are included here)
3)Car (for those random excursions day trips etc)
4) laptop/phone/tablet (keeps me organized)
5)Shoes (for exercise)
6) my former players(so much I've learned from them including perseverance)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How courtesy and respect seem to be lost traits. I believe it stems from how disconnected we are from each other and how we are more connected to our electronic devices (smartphones/laptops/email etc.) Im guilty of that from time to time but have made efforts to correct those habits when around friends/family (part of my job requires me to be responsive to emails so it makes it impossible for me to completely disconnect)

Also how people treat those in the service industry. if you are a notoriously bad tipper we will not be a good match
On a typical Friday night I am
depends on what time of year during soccer season usually about game plans for the weekend for at least some of the night. otherwise a good movie. new restaurant, something fun and adult like as lets face it even if we love and cherish the kids we are around and teach we still like to connect with people our own age.
You should message me if
Anything you see or have read intrigues you. You have questions of me. You think we'd be a great match. You have a tip on a good restaurant/bar or place to visit. Looking for something more than a one-night stand

but i need to warn you.....


i want to know you and see if we get line messages show an inability to communicate which is currently a big reason for why relationships fail.
The two of us