30Denver, United States
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My self-summary
**If you can't send more than hi, hey, or how's it going, I'm likely going to ignore your message. Sorry. If you have no pictures, no questions answered, and/or no info about yourself up, likely going to yield the same result.**


I'm a mess but it's working.
A friend once called me "disarmingly sweet, bitter as hell". I stand by that.


I've never been good at finding words to describe myself. I'm equal parts goofball and hardass. I feel deeply, can be shy at first, but come on strong after that. I value my independence and do not want drama or toxic people in my life (this is a big part of why I am looking for new friends). Overall I'm silly, serious, creative, ambitious, curious, melancholy, joyful, honest, adventurous, and loyal.

Pansexual / queer

For money, I work in the hospitality industry which seems to be going well. For fun... I'm working on that. I really need to get out more. Trying to expand my horizons but getting on my feet (and proverbially keeping my balance) has occupied most of my time to be honest. I work hard so I think it's time to learn to play hard too, so I'm up for almost anything! I value play and adventure in my life.

I've got a little extra on me at the moment but I am learning to love the gym and am working hard to get strong (and fit).


Basically, I'm nice (when I'm not a sarcastic jackass), I like my job and put a lot into it, like to eat/make food, enjoy watching movies, revel in the outdoors, like working out, and like nice humans... Some mean ones too, so long as they are high caliber ones. Bottom line, I am still growing and evolving. But I know my worth and will not waste my time on those who do not.

"My alone feels so good, I'll only have you if you're sweeter than my solitude."
What I’m doing with my life
Getting fit
Pushing myself
Living more intentionally
Cultivating good energy
Striving to be the happiest monster I can
I’m really good at
My job
Remembering what other stuff actors have been in
Forgetting important things...
What was the question?
The first things people usually notice about me
You tell me
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food

Books : Tolkien, Palanhuik, Coelho, King, Hemingway, Poe, Lee, Eggers, Rice... I need to read more.

Movies: Too many to name. Movies are my favorite.

TV : Parks and Rec, House of Cards, GOT, Walking Dead, Louis, Metalocolypse, Archer, Bob's Burgers, Jessica Jones, DBZ, The Office, Black Mirror, Master Of None...

Music : Trent Reznor, Fiona Apple, Led Zeppelin, Marina and the Diamonds, Lana Del Ray, Lightning Bolt, Death Cab For Cutie, Kate Nash, Die Antwoord, Childish Gambino, Devil Makes Three, Amon Amarth, The Avett Brothers, M.I.A, Brown Bird, Flight of the Conchords, Nico Vega, Tortoise, Animal Collective, Regina Spektor... I'm forgetting lots
Six things I could never do without
My glasses
Time to myself
My phone (trying to change this one though)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Work, travelling, the future, bunnies, queer stuff, zombie apocalypse, art, money, if this is all a simulation, movies, the universe, how other people interact socially, butts... Normal stuff.
On a typical Friday night I am
I'm in a place right now where work rules my life. So either there or relaxing at home usually.
I don't get out that much... That's why I'm here...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
-I need some fucking friends

-Life across the country from everyone/thing I know and love was harder than I thought it would be and meeting new people doesn't come easily to me.

-This past year I was seriously considering joining the military, but decided to get a scalp tattoo instead... Follow up... I have a tattoo of a rabbit on the side of my head.
You should message me if
If you want to.

Or if you're interested in getting a coffee or a beer or cooking / eating some food or taking a drive or working out together or going on a hike or teaching me to snowboard or knit/crochet or play ukulele or showing me places to explore or taking pictures somewhere or want to watch Netflix or have an animal I can befriend ohmygushpleaseletmepetyourdog
The two of us