somethingisaid
44 Toronto, Canada
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My self-summary
Looking for a funny guy with a good face - who knows how to kiss. A dude who gets along with his family but doesn't want to spend every weekend with them or a well adjusted orphan. Someone who has the perfect balance of shame and optimism when it comes to online dating - who when asked will lie and tell my friends that we met at a party or in a Spanish class.

I have a crazy Scottish family (friendly hillbillies) in a small town a few hours away which I try to see on occasion - mostly holidays. My friends are good - I feel the love.

My work makes me happy - generally. Although sometimes I wonder if I'm doing the right thing. One time I went to Thailand and almost didn't come back - I met all these folks from around the globe living in grass huts on the beach. They taught snorkeling to fat Europeans; read Tarot cards and glued shells onto decorative boxes - it seemed very idyllic. I thought for a minute I would maybe stay and braid tourists' hair - possible learn how to weave hemp hammocks. But after several weeks I realized I was hanging with a bunch of delusional drug addicts - all like myself running from reality. I still keep in touch with some of them.
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to move towards something good. I work in TV - researching, writing, directing, producing. I travel a lot for work and sometimes spend more evenings in hotels than at home.

I want to do more but lack discipline - should write more, travel more, clean my place more, and maybe get a dog. I'm working on it.
I’m really good at
talking smack - making people feel comfortable - listening and remembering - telling stories (true and made up) - writing (clearly by my incredibly gripping profile) - cooking (mostly pedestrian homey type things - but yummy) kissing (seriously love kissing and try to practice all the time).
The first things people usually notice about me
Usually people notice I am kind of funny and have a big smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Lots of everything - Franny and Zooey, The last Station, Cass McCombs, cabbage rolls. but open to change at any minute.
On a typical Friday night I am
generally with friends deciding to eat or drink first or at the same time - and where?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
none of your damn business!
You should message me if
You don't have to be a comic genius but definitely have to know how to laugh.
If you are single and not into polyamory or any kind of bizarre multi-lover cult.
If you want to be friends (who occasionally make-out)
I'm also kind of looking for a boyfriend - there I said it! (corny?)
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