I don't text or message first (almost ever). Closest thing I'll do on this site is rate you high, as Cupid sends you a message saying I did so.
I won't date over weight guys, because I'm not attracted to them. For me, attraction/passion has to be there in a relationship (sexual or otherwise) and if it's not there, I'm not going to bother.
I've got a lot of data about myself on this site. Probably too much to be exciting if we met in person. Please read some of the information on here before you message me. I'd hate to have to ignore/reject you because you neglected to notice I have no problems with homosexuality (and would NEVER be involved with someone who thought it was immoral.)
I often take a long hiatus from this site, for one reason or another so I apologize if I am extremely late in messaging you back
And that last picture, with the face paint, corset and boots, is not just a halloween thing. I'm not very into fashion, but I love goth/punk clothing.
Currently, I have a job, my own place and my own car. I spend a lot of my free time on the computer playing video games (though I love console games as well), or writing. I hope to find a gym soon that I can work out at, preferably do some swimming every morning before work.
After some time, I've come to accept that I'm a fast learner at most things (snow boarding would not be one of them however >.>)
I'm pretty good at understanding/empathizing with people and their actions, but horrible in helping them change. I'm good at thinking actions through and weighing the consequences; I'm great at pushing myself.
Oh...and I guess they notice my hair, and my eyes.
Some of my favorite series are LOTR, Harry Potter, the Gatos series, anything by Tamora Pierce or Piers Antony. The Eregon series isn't bad. The Blue Sword and its prequel. The Chronicles of Prydain by Lloyd Alexander.
Movies: Almost anything purely action/adventure/sci-fi/fantasy/comedy. I love comic book movies. Also, I love horror movies, but mostly the supernatural kind, not the gore kind (Saw). I absolutely love Zoolander, the Pirates of the Caribbean movies, Star Wars, etc.
TV Shows: Stargate SG-1, Monk, X-files, Alphas, Bones, NCIS, South Park, The Daily Show, House, Eureka, the Office, Star Trek (original, TNG, DS9), Ghost Hunters.
Sometimes I enjoy watching old TV shows from childhood: DBZ, TMNT(old and new)
Music: I like many different types of music, but I prefer something that is mostly not screaming and has a lead singer that can actually sing. Some of my favorites at the moment are AFI, BVB, Blaqk Audio, the Beatles, the Beach Boys, Journey, PatD!, 3 Doors Down, Cage9, Boston, Chicago, Disturbed, I Am Ghost, Megadeath, Iron Maiden, John Denver, Gordon Lightfoot, Linkin Park, Matchbox Twenty, Michael Jackson, Michael Buble, Neurosonic, MCR, Papa Roach, the Police, the Rasmus, Styx, Three Days Grace, Van Halen, many motown artists, and lots of single songs from different artists
Food: Dairy, American, Italian food, Mexican, Japanese(Hibachi!)
a written language
at least one close friend
Water-preferably large bodies of it
Everyone loves to think about themselves or others as either complex or simple. But I think, in reality, everyone is both complex and simple, just in different aspects of life. Sometimes I feel like someone could understand me completely after listening to a handful of songs I love. That seems really simple, but in reality, though I feel that way it would probably never be the case for many reasons.
Or if I rated you, and you're curious about me.
This is where I have to be a bit of a bitch. Some things I request you DON'T message me for/about.
I am not "DtF"
Especially if you're text-speaking me, I'm not down to immediately seeing you and sleeping with you. As much as I'm cool with some no strings attached fun, there's a stronger chance of me seeing you and thinking, 'never gonna happen' than not. This is because, as you'll see later, I'm extremely shallow in my own way(deservingly or not, it is how I am).
If I don't message you back, there are two main reasons....
25% I'd actually be interested in you, but I'm too busy with life, or taking a break from this site.
75% I'm just not attracted to you. At all. And to be honest, it's probably because you're over weight or simply not my type. As I've answered in my questions, I don't date overweight people (and as I've said above, I'm shallow.)
I will not sext or cyber.
It's not my thing, I don't like it. Stop asking.
I won't respond if you don't have a picture.
I understand if you have a job and you're not allowed to--for the life of me at this point I can't exactly think of a profession that would require that kind of secrecy but I don't know everything either. However, when you say you're trying to be discreet, the first thing I think is, 'you're married and you don't want me to know'. Again, if you've read anything about me, I'm not interested in talking to someone who is married/seeing someone. And PLEASE don't send me some bullshit about not being able to upload a picture. If you really wanted to be open and show me a picture, you could take one from an image hosting site like photobucket and link it. It's really not that hard.
Finally, If you're a serious (or somewhat serious) Christian, or heavily religious, don't bother. I'm sure you're nice enough, I've met a lot of religious people who are. But I can almost guarantee that not too long into meeting, I'll offend you, or get pissed with you or similar. That goes for casual sex too, I have to at least like a bit to sleep with you.