32 Hitchin, United Kingdom
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My self-summary
If you're looking for a "typical bloke" whose interests don't extend far beyond football, beer and motors, I won't be for you...

I suck at D.I.Y. too, actually. But I stand firm as my own man. I value honesty and integrity. I love to laugh, with people, at people, at myself - it doesn't matter as long as we're all laughing together. I also love to really think, ponder unanswerable questions and share deep conversations. I always like to hear other opinions and view things from different perspectives, and I enjoy learning about different cultures. I would love to travel more and see the whole world - even from above.

I'm affectionate and passionate - I love hugs and kisses, and believe in romance. I don't play games. Cliche to say, but I treat others how I wish to be treated. I don't really believe in the word "hate". Why waste energy on something negative?

Peace, love and understanding.
What I’m doing with my life
Currently I'm in a comfortable job, running a warehouse for a small internet retailer, and doing a little dj'ing on the side. Not particularly exciting or fulfilling, but it serves its purpose - I'm more work to live, than live to work. But I do want more from my life, and have become tired of the same town, so I am planning a move to London and becoming involved in community and charity work. I'm looking forward to exploring the city fully, being able to attend more gigs, visiting museums and such, hunting out hidden bars, restaurants and shops. Could do with a partner in crime.
I’m really good at
listening, dj'ing, looking like a dick in photos, giving advice (it's easier to say than do yourself), taking the piss, collecting records, baking New York cheesecake, quoting lines from songs/comedies, eating pussy (crude but true)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music is everything. Hip-hop is my speciality, but I love music of all kinds - soul, blues, funk, house, dance, r&b, metal, classic rock, brit pop, drum n bass, break beat, dub, reggae, jazz...different vibes for different times. As for favourite artists...

J Dilla, Slum Village, A Tribe Called Quest, De La Soul, The Roots, The Pharcyde, Little Brother, 9th Wonder, MURS, Elzhi, Blu & Exile, Pete Rock, Gang Starr, Wu-Tang, MF DOOM, Madlib, Common, Talib Kweli, Mos Def, Pharoahe Monch, Kev Brown, J-Live, Jneiro Jarel, Funky DL, Mr J Medeiros, The Procussions, Atmosphere, Dead Prez, Jay-Z, Nas, D.I.T.C, M.O.P, Klashnekoff, Jehst, Roots Manuva, Jam Baxter, Four Owls, Yungun, Maspyke, OutKast, Ludacris, Public Enemy, Beatnuts, KRS-One, Rakim, Main Source, Masta Ace, Big Daddy Kane, Jurassic 5, DJ Yoda, DJ Shadow, Flying Lotus, Samon Kawamura, Nujabes, Bob Marley, D'Angelo, Amy Winehouse, Jill Scott, Erykah Badu, Lauryn Hill, Alicia Keys, John Legend, Joss Stone, Morcheeba, Massive Attack, Daft Punk, Julio Bashmore, Warpaint, Stevie Wonder, James Brown, Otis Redding, Curtis Mayfield, Gil Scott Heron, Aretha Franklin, Al Green, Marvin Gaye, Larry Saunders, Dionne Warwick, Nina Simeone, Ahmed Jamal, The Meters, Jimi Hendrix, Led Zeppelin, Rage Against The Machine, Deftones, Red Hot Chilli Peppers, The Rolling Stones...

Books - general science-based and philosophical literature. Anything about the universe and mankind, ancient history and consciousness.

Movies - Pulp Fiction, Lock Stock & Two Smoking Barrels, Snatch, La Haine, Blood Diamond, The Usual Suspects. From Dusk Til Dawn, The Deer Hunter, Blow, Kill Bill, Eternal Sunshine of a Spotless Mind, Shutter Island, Leon, Momento, Stand By Me, Fresh, Wayne's World, Ace Ventura, Friday, Pineapple Express, The Blues Brothers.

TV - I don't watch much TV as a habit, but youtube is a close friend and gotta love a good box-set. I generally either watch comedy and random shit that makes me laugh, or I watch things for knowledge and to spark thought (the universe, history, nature, politics).

The Wire is the greatest TV show I've ever seen.
Special shout out to Louis Theroux, I love that dude.

Favourite comedy shows - Curb Your Enthusiasm, Alan Partridge, Fast Show, The Office, Peep Show, Brass Eye, 11 o'clock Show, Game On, Red Dwarf, Phoenix Nights, The Thick Of It

Stand up comedians - Richard Pryor, Chris Rock, George Carlin, Patrice O'Neal, Bill Hicks, Mitch Hedberg, Dave Chappelle, Doc Brown, Jim Jeffries, Louis CK, Bernie Mac, Sam Kinison, Steven Wright, Jimmy Carr, Jack Dee (back in the day), Demetri Martin, Reginald D Hunter, Lee Mack, Jon Richardson, Paul Chowdry.

Food - pizza, pasta, chicken....can't really go wrong with Italian or Chinese. And a bit of soul food, or Mexican spice. I like 'homely' cooking, too - cottage pie and Sunday roast, classics.
The six things I could never do without
I'll do this as six things I'd like to share with that person I connect with -

Thought provoking conversation
Good sex
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The music I love.
Funny shit I heard/that happened.
Mankind's past, the universe, consciousness.
My future.
On a typical Friday night I am
No such thing as a typical Friday night. I could be chilling in alone or with mates, at a gig or the cinema. I like a night out in the bars and clubs as well, meeting up with different friends in different places - I love London, and Bristol is cool, too.
You should message me if
you're a freethinker and passionate about music.

If you love laughter and affection, and value honesty and integrity.