43Independence, United States
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My self-summary
Summary: ISFJ seeks ESFP or something like that
a pretty easy going guy with an open minded look on life.. looking for the right partner in crime to take on the world with..

If she is small, cute and is open minded and fun loving, she would be light years ahead of the rest. I seem to think most women on here are too uptight..

I am not just looking for sex ( as many seem to think) I am actually looking for a partner, a best friend and yes even a long term relationship.. I would like to be attracted to that girl and have amazing, open minded sex with her as well.. A great mind occasionally nearing the gutter would be good

I am very motivated, dont give up easily and am not afraid to go the extra mile to achieve something great, I love my job, I mix live concert sound on a touring level and look forward to going to work even though it takes me away from home. a travel partner that wants to explore the world with me would be good as well..

As I have to travel for work, I have seen a good portion of the planet and have many favorite places.. It also allows me to make home wherever I decide it to be, as long as I can get to an airport, I can get to work.. I really enjoy spending time outdoors in the sun or snow and anywhere in between, but dont mind being at home with the right person
What I’m doing with my life
Most of it is spent on tour or getting ready to go, or trying to put everything back together when I get back...
I’m really good at
my Job, cooking somethings, minding my own business and everything else I put my mind to acomplishing.. I guess I could be really good at anything worth the effort it takes to "get good" at something.

Things I am NOT really good at....
Online Dating, Quitting smoking, sitting still
The first things people usually notice about me
not usually easily noticed, prefer not to be the center of attention, I am the quiet, keep to myself guy until you get to know me, or I get to know you... While i dont shy away from conversation, I am not usually the conversation starter..
otherwise it would be probably my eyes and my "go with the flow" attitude.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I am a music nut... and always have been it has always been the basis for my life, I like all kinds of GOOD music, I have over 75 days of music on my ipod alone, I seem to think there is a song for every occasion in life and am learning this more and more every day variety is definitely the ideal here. as far as the rest well I can take it or leave it, except for maybe food...that I guess you need to live and I guess I am a meat and potatoes kinda guy in that department. I do love a great steak or pasta dish, but don't usually eat too many green things... Yes I am aware of how bad this diet is for me but hasnt seemed to bother me much so far...
Six things I could never do without
1: MUSIC... got to have it in some form, doesnt matter what kind.
2: Happiness... this is what we are all put here for.. to find it..
3: Honesty.. mainly with myself but a great basis for any relations
4: Reality.. I wish others would try living in it..
5: Fresh air... nature .animals.. in general helps provide number 2
6: coca cola. I will take it over anything else most of the time..
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Whats next?? How everything I experience while single would probably be better shared... What can I say, I am a sharing kinda guy..

This would also depend alot on the time of day, the time of year, whats going on in life, what needs to be planned for or what can be improved on....lets just say I spend alot of time thinking, about what and what I do while I am thinking is also different depending on the situation or occasion on which I am thinking...
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually someplace on this planet working... but a typical friday night in off season could involve just about anything...
in the company of the right person, I could be up for whatever but would be ok with staying home , staying in bed or doing something by ourselves.. I am willing to just go with the flow
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am a very open and honest person so I will admit to anything if asked directly.. So if you want to know, ask!
I will also say that I am a sucker for girls in uniform...or scrubs even better yet.. dont know why but scrubs can be damn sexy on the right girl!
You should message me if
If you care to be different, want a guy that cares, or just to prove me wrong... If you can be honest, dont like games and want something real...
or if.....
You have multi-colored hair..
Are 5' 6" or shorter.....
Are the cute girl next door type with a nymphomaniac pornstar alter ego..
definitely hit me up....
or if you want to!!! you should also feel free to ask anything you want to know as I am an honest open book... as long as you wont stalk me.. Had one of those and it wasnt a whole lot of fun,,, cost me a fortune in phone bills and generally made life hell. But if your intentions are good, then I encourage you to strike up a conversation and let it go where it may..
The two of us