46 Sacramento, United States
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My self-summary
So, after not having anything but my pictures up for quite some time, I've decided it's finally time to just put it out there.

If you're reading this, please respect my requests for no booty calls, affairs with married or otherwise committed men, or cougar-cub fantasy fulfillment. If that's where you are right now, I'm sure there are plenty of others who are in the same boat with whom you could have loads of fun.

I'm looking to build a real and genuine connection with someone who shares similar philosophical, spiritual and everyday views on life.

I believe that people are good, and that we all want to be known, seen, appreciated and loved.

I also believe that our fear of showing our true selves to others has, for many of us, to some degree, resulted in us losing sight of our true essence.

I believe that through constant introspection and reflection, we can rediscover our true selves and, in so doing, uncover our passion in and for life.

I believe that as much as our lives are the result of well-made and executed plans, not everything is controllable and, sometimes, the universe just throws a curve ball which tests our limits and pushes our boundaries, making us either stronger or more timid.

I believe that it takes great strength and courage to be open and vulnerable to all the beauty that life has to offer, and to continue to do so after you have been shown that it's not all roses.

I believe that our ability to love, have compassion for others, and form genuine connections are that which make us both beautifully and, sometimes painfully, human.
What I’m doing with my life
I own a business in which I help clients plan for their loved ones, help their loved ones carry out the plan, and help to defend or advocate for their wishes in a fight.

I do Crossfit 3-4 times a week and am currently obsessed with getting a muscle up and improving my overall strength and endurance.

I'm working on getting back to a regular meditation schedule to rejuvenate my soul, and to
dancing (club dancing/ salsa/ maybe something new?) to increase my joy.

I'm raising my young daughter by letting her develop into the being that she is and guiding her the best I can.
I’m really good at
Jumping rope. Dancing and singing at random moments. Making potato salad. Being a good listener. Being a good friend. Finding the humor in everything (even really really lame jokes)! Putting on mascara without looking in a mirror. Following and not following a recipe and have it come out pretty decent. Making complicated things easy to understand. Dancing and singing in the car while driving. Parallel parking (yes, despite the fact that I'm Asian!). Making people feel comfortable and welcome.
You should message me if
you are interested in actually getting to know me through phone calls or coffee (I'm not into messaging or texting back and forth for that), and are emotionally available for anything beyond that if we both feel there's a connection. :)