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My self-summary
I had this whole long narrative written here for years, but it hasn't served me well. so I'm shortening it, and if you like the summary of me, perhaps you'll be intrigued enough to get to know me better.

So...I'm a decent guy. hold a professional job, and go to great lengths to try keep fit (though that is proving slightly more challenging these days). I'm funny, shy, old school...but loyal to those who end up in my heart. perhaps that could be you? Who might enjoy being treated like a lady should for once - wooed, courted and appreciated by a gentleman with old school values, and a new school outlook.
What I’m doing with my life
currently treading water, but making strides to taking over the world. be afraid!
I’m really good at
I'm an art director by day, and erotic writer by night. so I guess driving you to distraction. and myself to self delusion. can you help me tell the difference? I write very well (hence the stories), which covers up for the fact that I'm kinda shy when speaking. I'm terrible at small talk...I'm better suited to more direct and pointed conversation.
The first things people usually notice about me
that I smell delicious! but not like bacon though...that would just be weird. and possibly gross if you're vegan.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
*Music - Oceansize (adore this band in a big way. am heartbroken that they broke up), Rise Against, Caspian, Explosions in the Sky, Nina Simone, Sharon Jones and the Dap Kings, Menahan Street Band. so essentially, motown revival, post rock and shoegaze music.
*Movies - Upside Down, I Origins, Predestination, Life of Pi, Life as a House, Aliens, Predator (1+2), Hellboy (1+2), Dune, The Cell, Silence of the Lambs
Six things I could never do without
my computer, the internet, pasta al forno, women who drive me to distraction, women who drive me to tears and lastly, nice smelling cologne
I spend a lot of time thinking about
erm...I don't know you well enough to say just yet. but I usually end up writing about it, then selling it to tasteless americans.

actually, no...thats not all I think about. I sometimes wonder who will fill the empty part of me like water filling a hole. and then I tell myself that I can live without knowing, but it will be a harder life because of it.
On a typical Friday night I am
(no...not really)

either writing, working or recovering from muay thai training. but perhaps you could inspire me to try something different?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm a fairly successful erotic novelist. go me! *airpunch, followed by the sound of crickets in the background*. so while I am a very sensual and suggestive person, don't mistake this for the priority of what I want from you. I'm looking for someone to love...the intimacy and sensuality I can bring is a fringe benefit to you that can come much later.
You should message me if
I've made you smile at least once so far. and you should DEFINITELY mail me if you look like Monica Bellucci. you should mail if you're looking for someone who be a gentleman with you, but who harbours a deeply sensual mind for the right woman. you shouldn't mail me if you aren't ready for an adult relationship, or are looking for someone to manipulate. mostly, you should have time for me in your life...time to make me a priority, because that's how I'll treat you if you win my heart.

but if you try to hit me up for airtime, data bundles, or money for your sick mother without having the courtesy to even meet me for coffee first, I will report your profile to the moderators of this site and block you. I'm a romantic, not a complete idiot.
The two of us