sparr
34 San Francisco, United States
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My self-summary
A kinky top, maker geek, burner, adventurer, and wearer of many other hats.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm getting to know the bay area after being here for a year. Spending weeks in SF and weekends in Oakland and Berkeley has exposed me to a lot of interesting people. After trying the vanilla dating scene here I decided to make my profile a little more blunt and significantly more kinky. I'm explicitly looking for dating and play partners. Especially the adventurous sort.
I’m really good at
Thinking of novel creative ways to use mundane things.
The first things people usually notice about me
Some geeky t-shirt that I'm wearing.

The ex-ambulance ex-SWAT-vehicle or ex-transit-bus that I'm driving while I convert them into living spaces.

When I have a beard, that. However, that's a lot more rare now that I live somewhere without winter.
The six things I could never do without
Distractions
Intelligent friends
Creative outlets
Thrift shopping
Transportation
Writing implements
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Projects
Plans
Parties
Relationships
On a typical Friday night I am
Out with friends at a party or cookout, somewhere else playing board games, at a kink event at the Citadel or Alchemy, doing freelance computer programming, home playing video games, hanging out at a local hackerspace, or something entirely unplanned. I don't really have "typical" plans except for the day job.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I use the same name on most social network and dating websites. Maybe with a zero tacked onto the end.
You should message me if
We're a 90%+ match, or you want to have a serious discussion about a high-importance question in our "Unacceptable Answers" category.

You'd like to engage in any combination of conversation, romance, kinky play, sex, gaming, adventure, and/or art/craft/making.
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