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My self-summary
My name is Joe. I am a student and with a creative writing major. I like to get involved in whatever community I'm in so I am really involved with my university (tour guide, RA, Student Government, and more). I am also a French minor and after graduating I want to go to grad school somewhere.

My personality has three distinct flavors: one, chill, loves to have fun, and playful. Number two, quiet, focused, uncommunative, and cold (this is only when I am focused on work or my studies). The last part is more close to my overall personality, sarcastic and quick witted, intellectual, and maybe even a bit of an asshole, but not mean. I just end up being a bit too honest or blunt. Other than that, I like to push boundaries and I take risks and I love adrenalin so be prepared to sometimes do something outside of your comfort zone.

I am good at talking to people and can usually hold a conversation for a while if the other person is able to converse as well. I get bored easily and I'll admit that it has ended some relationships because I need that mental stimulation from whomever I'm dating. That includes serious intellectual conversations about politics or some just really high-school fart joke humor. To be honest though, most of my conversations are not intellectual... But
What I’m doing with my life
Writer, musician, reader, and just being a plain student in a not plain way.
I’m really good at
Writing (I think), reading people, wit, research, learning, analyzing situations, and talking. Pretty good at video games.
The first things people usually notice about me
My hair.
My brown eyes.
My chattiness.
My lack of boundaries or ability to filter what comes out of my mouth.
My large mouth.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Too much to list. But I'll try.

Books: Bossypants, The Color Purple, The God Box, The Perks of Being a Wallflower, Reading Lolita in Tehran, To Kill a Mockingbird, The Joy Luck Club, The Help, and A Song of Ice and Fire series, Harry Potter series.

Movies: The Fall, V for Vendetta, Beasts of the Southern Wild, Pan's Labyrinth, Garden State, To Kill a Mockingbird, Star Wars series, Dead Poets Society, Gladiator, Kramer vs Kramer, Lord of the Rings series, Precious, The Color Purple, Moulin Rouge, American Beauty, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Harry Potter series, The Truman Show, and Moonrise Kingdom.

TV Shows: Doctor Who, 30 Rock, Parks and Recreation, Happy Endings, Modern Family, Teen Wolf, Supernatural, Sherlock, Game of Thrones, Skins, Merlin, Misfits, Adventure Time, My Mad Fat Diary, American Horror Story, So You Think You Can Dance, The Last Airbender/The Legend of Korra, and Once Upon A Time. I realize I have cartoons on there, but I love 'em!

Music: The Wailin' Jennys, MGMT, Oasis, Nico Vega, Icona Pop, Fitz & The Tantrums, Gin Wigmore, Dana Buoy, Lana Del Rey, Wye Oak, Macklemore and Ryan Lewis, Alt-J, PIXIES, The National, Grouplove, Gorillaz, M83, Delta Rae, The Avett Brothers, Imagine Dragons, The Postal Service, The Temper Trap, Electric Light Orchestra, Phoenix, Shiny Toy Guns, The Wombats, Grizzly Bear, Arcade Fire, Daft Punk, The Black Keys, Crystal Castles, Feist, The Velvet Underground, Vampire Weekend, Lykke Li, Matt and Kim, Tune-Yards, Cloud Cult, Regina Spektor, Stars, Freelance Whales, Death Cab for Cutie, The Smiths, The Shins, Hey Ocean!, The Darkness, Florence + the Machine, The Killers, Edith Piaf, Nina Simone, Mumford and Sons, Modest Mouse, Broken Bells, Asa, The Naked and Famous, The Who, Fleetwood Mac, Weezer, Sigur Ros, Talking Heads, 30 Seconds to Mars, New Radicals, Passion Pit, She & Him, and most pop music. I like almost anything.

Food: Anything really. But not too much of a fast food eater.
Six things I could never do without
A good book
Time to myself (I like people, but my ideal weekend is alone in bed with a book)
My journal
Lactaid, because I'm lactose intolerant)
At least one item used to listen to music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How the human mind works and the psychological processes we have going on.

The break down of taboo topics

Double standards.

Honest self-evaluation.

Getting some tattoos.

Whether or not I should eat that food out of the garbage, because it is on the top and looks fine, but you never know right? ...I'm going to eat it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Doing whatever is most fun for me. I like to go out with friends and have a fun time, but I also like to just have a relaxing weekend either alone or with a few friends (around 3) just watching a movie and eating Ben & Jerry's.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I got in a fight with the class bully in 7th grade. I won. It was in self-defense though (he came at me first)! I also punched a guy in the face during a broomball tournament at my college... Whoops
You should message me if
you want to. Just be open and try to give me something more than "Hi." I want a conversation so just type whatever pops into your head even if it is awkward.
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