Relax, there will be no self photos of me sans shirt...not only is it intrusive, but I don't want shrieking women running for safety or calls to Greenpeace to haul my sexy body back into the ocean.
I am wicked smart and sarcastic and funny...I have also made some stupid choices in my life, and can be beset by bouts of introspection and quiet. I am open minded to anyone and anything with the exception of ignorance and closed-mindedness; and yeah, I am one of those pains in the ass that hates a profile that hasn't been proofread (feel free to correct mine, seriously!), it just looks bad.
I am looking for someone I can be myself with...and in this magical world of online dating, that's not as easy as it sounds. I don't own a motorcycle, have no tattoos, and my idea of fun with airplanes is using them to fly me somewhere warm, not jumping out of them.
I dislike the labels available here to define the undefinable of what we are seeking-If I say that I am seeking to "date but nothing serious", I become labeled irresponsible and branded with a scarlet letter upon my forehead. If I say "looking for a relationship", it weeds out all the normally cautious people that want to take their time in getting to know someone without the wedding planner sitting next to us at the bar on the first date.
Would I like to meet someone? Yes. Do I have unreasonable expectations beyond enjoying each other's company as we get to know each other? Oh hell no. Ideally, we would all meet someone organically, and let nature take its course. I don't want to change you, please don't want to change me. We are all perfectly imperfect, so let's not define each other by labels that we had no input in creating.
I love Cape Cod in the spring, south Florida in the winter, Fenway in the summer and anywhere outside during the five days of autumn that we get here in New England. Abe & Louie's, The Capital Grille, Eastern Standard or a Tapas Bar any time are amazing...I am open to anything else new and fun too!
Life is short and difficult and rewarding and laughter-inducing and just plain silly sometimes. Sharing it with someone...well that's a very good thing, don't you think?
God, this is really long...sorry about that!
Worrying less, living more, listening, laughing, eating and drinking.
Usually I'm administering the Five Minute Test on them upon first meeting.
To do is to be.
To be is to do.
Do be do be do.