26Novi, United States
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My self-summary

Before you read anything about me, let me tell you why I am on this site right now. The reason changes as I change who I am in life by having new experiences. Right now I am interested in making friends I can be kind of romantic-ish with, but I don't think I am ready to actually date.

~ you have kids
~ you have extreme gauges
~ you just want sex
~ you are over ten years older than me
~ you think women should be passive and submit to men, regardless of what religion you follow

I don't know how to properly describe myself. I enjoy being a bit different, hence the hair color. I'm pretty laid back for the most part, and try to enjoy the little things. I am unfortunately cynical in a lot of areas, although I am working on that. I'm kind of introverted, and as such, I'm not really a big social butterfly. I meet a lot of people working at conventions, but I am terrible with remembering names or how I met someone. I am a bit OCD about being polite, and not offending people, which clashes sometimes with me trying to be myself and not care about opinions.

Music is a big part of my life. I can't really imagine a day where I don't listen to music at all. I think it would be awful if I ever went deaf. I enjoy comparing music tastes with people, although I am not too big on country or rap.

I really like my choice fandoms, and by that, I mean cosplay, conventions, fanfiction, and collecting memorabilia. I am furnishing my nerd-cave.

As for random facts about myself: I like cuttlefish a lot. I don't believe in matching socks. I don't really like the hipster thing. I love video games and coffee and music. I am a fan of wine and chocolate. I love unnatural hair colors. I enjoy doing various crafts, as well as playing dress-up and going out. I enjoy burlesque and other vaudeville-feel sideshow type things. Fire and glitter, yeah! :D
What I’m doing with my life
I'm working and getting by, paying the bills, and that sort of thing. Right now I manage a small store. I don't need a lot in order to be happy, just a place to call my own, and someone to cook for, play games, and cuddle with. Oh, and a cat eventually.
I’m really good at
crocheting, staffing conventions, nerding, making god-level mix cd's, cooking, and drawing animated pictures. Also tedious repetitive things that other people find boring.
The first things people usually notice about me
My brightly colored hair, my amazing sense of humor, and my impeccable sense of style. Or that I am really sarcastic and have a fake ego. :P
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
For books: Lord of the RIngs, The Hobbit, The Vampire Chronicles, Jane Eyre, The Inheritance Cycle, Harry Potter, and cookbooks.

Movies: Lord of the Rings, Interview with the Vampire, Dorkness Rising, The Crow, The Princess Bride, The Devil Wears Prada, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Harry Potter, Up, and Tangled.

Shows: House, Lie to Me, Jackie Chan Adventures, RageQuit, FRESH PRINCE OF BEL-AIR, 30 Rock, Castle, Game of Thrones, CSI, True Blood, Law and Order SVU, and occasionally Everybody Loves Raymond.

Music: Nightwish, Epica, Tartanic, Abney Park, Steam-Powered Giraffe, Voltaire, Marilyn Manson, The Beatles, Massive Attack, Regina Spektor, Flogging Molly, The Bawdy Boys, Gallarhorn, and Rammstein

FOODS! Italian food, Oriental food, gyros, seared cow flesh, sushi, slurpees, SALMON, cookies and other assorted delicious baked things like pie.
Six things I could never do without
My family

My friends


My car


My phone probably
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Meaning behind music, different cultures, current events, the future, and what I'd do with a billion dollars.
On a typical Friday night I am
Playing video games, making food, and winding down after work
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
When I am nervous or upset, I chew at the inside of my mouth. And I can and do listen to the same song obsessive-compulsively for hours. Also, if left to my own devices, I don't really seek out new things too well.
You should message me if
~ you are interested in any of the things I like
~ you are not rude or homophobic
~ you are not trying to sell me god
~ you like video games
~ you randomly feel like purchasing a cuttlefish for a random stranger (just kidding!)
~ you enjoy fandom pictures and cats on tumblr

I will not message back if:
~ your message includes text-speak
~ you sexually objectify me
~ you use words like "baby," "sweetheart," "honey," "gorgeous," "beautiful," when addressing me. Unless I give you my real name, my username is how I prefer to be addressed.
~ your message suggests that you want sex from me
~ within your first message you tell me to ask things about you

I don't respond to these things because:
~ Text-speak is ANNOYING. If you don't want to take the time to use readable English, I don't want to take the time to message you back.
~ Sexual objectification is sexist, and I deserve better.
~ I don't like being referred to by nicknames I have not consented to, and view it as objectification.
~ I have stated that I'm not looking for sex, and people who don't read my profile before messaging me aren't interested in getting to know me, therefore I don't want to message back.
~You're messaging ME. Not the other way around. I would ask about you if I was messaging you. It's annoying to have people tell me to ask things about them, when I never showed an interest to begin with.
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