31Charlotte, United States
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My self-summary
Hey! I'm Jared! I'm driven, goal oriented and know the path that I want to be on. I have been single for three years and now that everything else has fallen into place I would really like to find someon to build a relationship with. I am a very positive optomistic person, I think that it is important to keep some of the optomistic inoscence...I love owning a business and am currently working on my next endevor. I have goals and know without a doubt that I will achieve those; even after that will always continue to gain something as the continuation of personal growth is so important. I am responsible and at the same time I know when to loosen up and have fun. I love the feeling of just hopping in the car and just going somewhere without planning on the weekends (usually the beach), I love to travel, go to the beach, like working out and being active. I also like being social , tanning, shopping and entertaining (I'm a really good cook and a great entertainer)...Anyway hit me up!
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a cpht an love my job I work a good bit but I definitely take time to enjoy myself. I recently have become a single dad having adopted a puppy- Jackson Reese. This keeps me pretty busy on top of everything else, i definitely did not anticipate how much work being a single dad was going to be (guess its good instarted with him before having kids) but I love him! When I am not busy I spend a lot of time with my friends, I have a very close knit group of friends here in Charlotte and they only come second to my actual family who I am very close with. I am from PA and that is where my parents (who are my best friends) are so I feel fortunate to have created the bonds I have with my friends here. I moved here in 2008 for someone I was dating, and now am really ready to date and find a match. I tend to look anywhere for a person that fits and am willing to go on dates in other states, I don't want to limit myself. As stated above I have been single for three years I would really like to click with someone and build a relationship and have that ultimate bond with someone.

I've become very comfortable with myself and focusing my energies on me so while I would like to share life with someone, it won't happen over night, I'm content so it's very much about taking time with dating.

I also spend a lot of time at the gym, I have recently lost a lot of weight and a healthy lifestyle is very important to me.
I’m really good at
Telling stories, wit, entertaining, cooking and singing...
The first things people usually notice about me
Usually my hair or tan I guess followed by my personality....I can be pretty witty and pretty charming.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I don't read a ton does the J.Crew catalogue count?

Music: I have a deep appreciation for most music. I grew up singing and love music it's a big part of my life. I have to admit I love country, country and boybands (circa 1998) make up the majority of my i-tunes. I also love older style music, I love Michael Buble.

Movies well I guess the best thing to do is list my top 5:

1) Mean Girls
2) Love Actually
3) The Last Song/ Dear John
4) Titanic
5) The Sandlot

love True Blood and Dexter there the two shows i'm addidcted to
Six things I could never do without
1) God
2) My Family
3) My Friends
4) Tod's Driving loafers
5) My Wallet
6) Vacations
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My future
On a typical Friday night I am
It defnititely varies, I love to go out of town on the weekends but i also like my friday nights in.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I like having nice things and a lot of times I have been thought to be materialistic and high maitnence...I'm really down to earth I love things, but it does not define me and I am very generous.

When it comes to dating, and this is a dating site so I guess I'll share this, I can be pretty old fashioned I want to really get to know someone. I can also be a little bit of a hopeless romantic when I let my guard down.
You should message me if
If your interested obviously...looking for a best friend/ partner... Run marathons
The two of us