stephenstante
30 South Bend, United States
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My self-summary
Cutting right to the chase, my name is Stephen, I'm 26, lived in South Bend all my life. I'm a guy who tends to focus on relationship chemistry. I'm not trying to consider someone based soley on sex so if there's no chemistry I don't see the point. I know, I get it, I'm crazy. In order to describe my personality, I'm straight forward, amicable, and can easily get along with a lot of different people. I'm slightly introverted, I prefer it that way. I was raised Catholic and believe firmly in God.
I try to always keep an open mind, I'll at the very least reserve judgement until Ive collected lots of information. This applies to just about everything so my profile (percentages, numbers) isn't a closed book. Ive learned to read between the lines.
What I’m doing with my life
The usual stuff. Working towards a degree in, well, I'm not sure yet.
I love psychology. This is most likely where I'll focus my attention.
I’m really good at
Over analyzing and sabotaging myself.
I can bring order to chaos. That is my way of saying that I can organize objects and lead people fairly efficiently.
The first things people usually notice about me
Telepathy isn't one of my strong suits.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books:
Blink! By Malcolm Gladwell
The Great Divorce by CS Lewis
Bonfire of the Vanities by Tom Wolf

Music:
Sage Francis, Atmosphere, Cake, Weezer, Iron & Wine, Blockhead, Ben Folds, George Winston, Yo-Yo Ma, MF Doom, Pigeon John, emancipator and so on.

Movies:
Downfall, Vanilla Sky, Midnight in Paris
The six things I could never do without
Faith
Friends
Family
Apparently the letter f
Espresso
Challenges
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Current problems, possible solutions.
On a typical Friday night I am
My current line of work builds up to Saturdays. So by Friday I'm usually ready for a couple drinks and hanging with friends. Not too exciting but that's kind of the point.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
This question gets me every time. Someone get me the definition of private please! Ha, ok some mildly protected secret ok, uhh...I like the tv show "Snapped" and it's on the Oxygen channel for women. The commercials mostly contain feminine hygiene ads, whoever reads this definitely just got an inside track on me.
You should message me if
I have very strict criteria and standards you must meet before messaging me. They are attached to a PDF I will email you upon request.

Not really, just message me if you feel such a desire to do so. It's as simple as that I guess.
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