45Oakland, United States
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My self-summary
Originally from Florida. Now I'm living in Oakland, Ca. I have found a lot of inspiration here in Oakland, but I plan on living in some secluded spot in the shadow of a mountain somewhere with a farm, goats, and some kind of solar powered earth ship. I'm still trying to figure out my next move.

I am a musician and radical. I think it's safe to say that I live outside the mainstream. My life is pretty chaotic.

I am very busy so I find it hard to go out on big adventures, but I will make the time for friends. I love scenic bike rides. Hiking. Nothing to grueling. I like making dinner and watching movies. I like gardening, but someone has to tell me what to do the whole time because I'm still a novice at gardening. I love to have wonky conversations about politics or philosophy. I love taking risks and having new experiences. I'm not a high strung person, but I am proactive.

I'm in a serious poly-amorous relationship with a primary partner. I would love to meet someone in a poly relationship or is not looking for a serious primary partner.
What I’m doing with my life
I am homesteading a house in Oakland living mostly off grid.

I also recently passed the bar exam. I am the CEO of a non-profit social justice housing organization. I also work for an environmental advocacy non-profit to pay the bills. I am starting a business providing estate legal services. Basically I have a lot of plates spinning.

I play guitar and other instruments. I have played in punk and metal bands.
I’m really good at
Trouble making. Scheming. Cooking.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I am outgoing and gregarious.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: The Trial, The Stranger, Candide, The Foundation Trilogy, The Valis Trilogy, ...
Movies: The Bourne series, Serenity, Twin Peaks, Thank You For Smoking, Pans Labyrinth, Holy Mountain, Dune,
Shows: Game of Thrones, Breaking Bad, Twin Peaks, Yacht Rock, Dr. Horrible's Sing Along Blog,...
Music: Everything that ever existed. Punk, Metal, Jazz, Classical, Experimental, World, Industrial, Country, Pop... but mostly Metal, Miles Daves, Mahavishnu Orchestra, and Blaze Foley these days. Who knows tomorrow...
Food: I recently broke vegan edge after 18 years. I slaughtered a chicken to seal the deal.
Six things I could never do without
Friends, Food, Music... the rest is a toss up
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Strategy. Ideas for books and scripts that I never find the time to write.
On a typical Friday night I am
There is no typical. I am transitioning out of an obligation on Friday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
After many years of separation from my wife we finally stopped procrastinating got divorced. I am currently in an open relationship with a primary partner.
You should message me if
you want to.
The two of us