47El Sobrante, United States
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My self-summary
Nice Asian American guy (ABC). into normal things I make beer and wine and that world has too mane heavyset middle aged guys. I am big not fat. 5 10. i speech real good(lol). what do you want to know. looking for friends. Who knows one step at a time right. I think I'm normal, but I've been told I use too many big words. Blame that on NPR. Addicted, but not current on pledge. Maybe when stars align again.

It's weird one of my really good friends from college recently passed, and that hit me harder than I would have thought. She was a good friend and companion, but we were not intimate. So, I guess I'm looking for someone that can be that good of a friend but more.

Who am I looking for? Someone to love and trust. And will do the same. Someone honest, bright, and loving. Someone who will be my teacher, student, partner, and muse. And that I can also be there for. Some one who believes in me through thick and thin. Maybe it's just a dream, so why can't I find my dream girl? If you want to try, I understand that you have to start smaller, and as trust grows - so does love.

I am quiet, patient, and fun to be with
What I’m doing with my life
Groundhog day. I got to get a new clock. Actually I just had a stroke, so I'm needing more center in my life. I've started to go back to church (Episcopal), an'd it's a good community, but it seems like all the single ladies there are seniors (which is fine, but I'm too young for that (lol). Dad was a minister, but Mom was a scientist. I certainly don't know for sure that God exists but on the other hand can't say otherwise. Certainly not going to proselytize. I am accepting of most religions or belief systems. .
I’m really good at
Excel. Beer- lol. Wine too. Ironically I don't drink as mutch these days. But do like an occasional whiskey. But I know my limits and that excess is unhealthy.
The first things people usually notice about me
Big guy (not obeese) Asian people have often thought I'm Polynesian. Grew my hair longer once, but got tired of people calling me "chief", came to realize the implicit racism here.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
yes I like all of the above. To be honest action/drama first, then pieces that make you think. But too often it's reruns of NCIS, Bones, or Criminal Minds.... Books- Humm Tom Robbins, John Irving, Dan Brown. I don't read as much as I used to. I should.
Six things I could never do without
air, water, fire, pizza (all 4 food groups), NPR. I'd like to find a friend that could be "the one", No luck yet. Perhaps that could be you. Crap gotta cut down on pizza. Mid life crisis😰
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My parents and how they managed life, and how very blessed I was (am) to have them as Mom and Dad. How I can may work life easier. How I should really be out there, exercising.
How to turn thee into we. Not as easy as making the a w.
On a typical Friday night I am
Home watching a vid on my computer. Maybe a glass of beer or wine in front of me. Wishing I were with you.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I like beer a lot. And I'm really pretty normal, what ever that means.
You should message me if
You want to connect with someone fun. You are real and honest. You must be open to have me in your world.
The two of us