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My self-summary
I have some very nice people on this site, some had promise others despite my efforts here, seem less interested in something long term and real. I look for a honest, straightforward lady not afraid of intimacy but also looking for the whole real thing.

I believe the most important quality in a person and essential to a relationship is honesty. I have been through a lot, games and dating for just that, is of no interest to me.

Chivalry is not an abstract concept for me. But some rules may be out the window on this platform. If you would like to say Hi first please do.

In 2002 my life changed permanently, out of that I grew and becames the man I am today.

Pretentious, money based or materialistic need not say hi. In 2014 my life improved due to a medical solution. I am fit, run, jump and laugh, but I was sick to my stomach for many years, and that was solved. For years I didn't date, then I realized that a life alone is not was was meant for me.

To ask me questions, to chat and talk is the only way to know me. The questions on the platform are OK but limiting.

I lost a lot in my life, went through a lot, and came out of it clear of the little things that get in the way of truly knowing someone. I like myself, laugh at myself with ease and can accept my limitations. I have been told often that I have empathy, and humor, I can be serious, and romantic, and I find kindness to be number two after honesty. So I re-wrote this site, looking again, for that one person whose life and mine can fit into a wonderful life. I do not intend to spend my life alone but I will not settle either.

I am an educated, intelligent guy that can lose his keys, get lost, or be confused by a lady. While I enjoy a wide diversity of activities from the outdoors, eating out, and staying in, I have come to realize that none of it matters as much as the person you share the moment with. It has always been for me about the conversation rather than the meal. A life, a sunset, even a walk has real meaning when shared.

As I said I value honesty above all else, I am real, I am nice, and hold my integrity as my defining attribute.

I believe that the rest of my life will be full of passion, loyalty. And laughter.

If I am interesting at play please say hi, it may change both our lives. Compassion, simple honesty, and silliness are me. I hope you say hi.

I am not here to play games I am here for something real.
What I’m doing with my life
Re starting everything, and caring about those who need help
I have worked to save animals, hold degrees in zoology, and left the corporate world to find meaning in a job with more direct conswquences
I’m really good at
Listening and with someone being in the moment. Life is too short not to be. I believe empathy defines our humanity
The first things people usually notice about me
If noticed it is that I am nice. If we get close enough my eyes show up
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Movie - What dreams may come, it exhibits what I think love is
I like to read Philosophy and science
Books for fun - Childhoods end

I like all kinds of food, even been known to cook
Six things I could never do without
Love (That special someone is missing at the moment)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I think too much I suspect. Thinking about thinking now that's productive LOL. It depends on the moment, My interests are diverse if not exasperatingly eclectic . Everything from string theory to what makes string cheese. I also think about my place in the world, how I can help others, where I want to be and whether I have to get there alone
On a typical Friday night I am
Watching a movie, working, working out, enjoying time with friends
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
When I know you, there are no limits, no secrets, only honesty
You should message me if
You are looking for an honest, open, nice guy.
f you are an sincere caring person
if you are serious about a real relationship.
if you are not interested in games, or lies.
If you have some suggestions to improve Let me know.
The two of us