stillacoolchik
53 Wyandotte, United States
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My self-summary
*** First and foremost , In light of some recent tragedies in my life, please understand, I've decided to keep a profile here, mainly to talk to people, maybe go on a date or few, but I'm NOT looking for a relationship in MI, I WILL be moving to FL within a year.

*** Secondly, I've been attempted to be scammed on a few times here...I've picked up on who they are and how they speak,so if that would be you...keep going, I WILL report you,I have "in's" with who to report to***

With that being said,lets move on............I'm not fond of talking about myself in a profile,I wish a friend could fill this out for me & give their opinion of me.For the most part I'm pretty "happy-go-lucky", low drama, low maintanance type of woman.
That "girl next door"..............she would be me.

I've recently become the "empty nester".......Sure is different around
here! *update* the nest isnt so empty anymore....."Calgon, Take me away!"
What I’m doing with my life
How about "what I'm NOT doing "with my life? Not alot of dating so maybe I'll just try some networking on this site. Does Anybody know anybody that works with Hospice in southeast MI? I'm interested in volunteering or possibly working for a hospice service. Drop me a note if you do.It sure doesnt hurt to ask!!
I've recently partially retired from professional salon hairdressing and am a full time caregiver for the elderly..... I LOVE what I do
( that's why FL is very appealing to me)..... Think about it
Elderly woman that need care and hair done= Florida!!

Other than that, working to make a decent life for my boys,then it'll be MY turn.
*UPDATE*...my sons have turned into very nice young men, I've accomplished what I had hoped to do for them.

I have quit smoking,excited, feeling very good about it.I don't miss it a bit(for me)If you smoke it's ok with me(just not like a chimney) Even with all I've been going thru, still haven't touched a cig!

........Just this past August 15th, it has been 4 years smoke free for me !! I have promised I'll quit counting the months, so I'm keeping my promise! Thank you for the incentive "swoop"
I’m really good at
Making people feel comfortable..(i think) and not judging people.

Burning vacuum cleaner belts (chalk up another one today :-( )
maybe I should just stop vacuuming? hehehe

Laundry, I fold pretty good

being nieve too often

trusting & giving the benefit of the doubt......only to be let down time & time again

I'm sure there's more............I'll update as I come across things

Now a few things I'm NOT really good at:
painting............any volunteers?

caulking............any volunteers? << I watched you tube, learned how to caulk, did my tub myself

fixing leaky faucets..........any volunteers?

cooking...........any volunteers?

I haven't had any volunteers :-( Is chivalry dead?

I have an awesome brother that volunteers...... Thank you Leon!!
The first things people usually notice about me
My friendliness & sense of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Most of the time my radio is tuned to 89x, the river, or WOMC(they have updated their oldies to include 80's & 90's)

Since I've lost DOUG, I've tuned back into 94.7......classic rock, sure brings back some memories.....
One of my very favorite all time classic songs.......Brass in Pocket(I'm Special), The Pretenders

Almost any sitcom you'll find me enjoying(the big bang theory,modern family, the middle,two and a half men(yes with Ashton too!) a recent sitcom to add to my list is MOM, catch it if you get a chance, it's pretty funny.
also like the datelines,60 minutes,48hour mystery shows, forensic files..................

One of my favorite movies would be " Its a Wonderful Life"............. It sure is a wonderful life :-)

"Fried Green Tomatoes" ,I could watch that over and over

And last but not least, if you're from the Detroit area, ya gotta love the movies "8 Mile" and "Gran Torino"....................

I really enjoy local theatre..............its a decent night out since I'm really not into the bar/hang-out scene

I especially like dining out,I can cook, but it's not my favorite thing to do, especially when cooking for one(kids aren't around too much for meals anymore)(maybe on purpose? hahaha)
(ok, I lied, I can't really cook that good)
The six things I could never do without
only 6?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Am I the only person on cupid that realizes how bad this site is sucking?

stupid stuff

Why is this dating soooo hard??? I'm looking to find a man that doesn't " need" to be with me, but " wants" to be with me .... And vice versa

Wow, Michigan sure has a lot of cities I have never heard of!

love and companionship, I miss it

Hoping to move south, warm weather,eventually ,unless I find a reason to keep me here........so far, I haven't found THAT reason to stay .......Wanna come with me? ;-).... Well, looking like that dream may become reality..... I get it guys., I get why you're not interested.... Afraid to live outside of the box...... I used to be..... But it's my life and it's going way too with quickly alone,
Might as well live it warm!
On a typical Friday night I am
Open for suggestions
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Is there are private things i'm not so willing to admit

I'm a little bit afraid of growing old alone (p.s. ok a lotta bit)
You should message me if
You wanna get the hell off this site like I do

and you should NOT message me if you're going to be crude and looking for only a hook up ..............go buy a hooker for that shit
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