47Farmington, United States
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My self-summary
I spent years pretending to be happy alone (before coming out). But I finally sorted that all out and realized what I'm missing in my life. Don't get me wrong, I'm a happy, optimistic, down-to-earth, and fun-loving sort of guy. Though I am a serious guy, I try not to take things too seriously all the time. I do enjoy being goofball at times, and can be a little dorky. I can feel socially awkward at times, but manage to hide it pretty well. Overall though I tend to be the life of the party once I get comfortable. So I’m looking for my other half, a best-friend, and someone to come home to. I'm looking for someone who, like me, is honest, loyal, caring, trustworthy, romantic, and maybe little spontaneous. Someone that likes adventure, but who can also be just as happy to staying in and cuddling. Maybe watching a movie, or listening to a thunderstorm, or just looking up at the stars. That’s not asking too much, is it? I know I sound like a hopeless romantic. Maybe I am. I love the quote, "you get the love you think you deserve" and I think I deserve some good love. That's what this is all about, finding the right guy to share my life with, and experiencing another level of happiness. I have a lot to offer and even more than that..I am a sensitive guy with a heart almost as big as my funny bone. It says a lot to me when a guy wants to try a relationship and is wanting to work at it. I am very serious about that. What else do I say about me that isn't too much and isn't too little...geeze...I is smart, I is kind, I is special! Kidding aside, here are some traits

*I enjoy humor but serious discussions almost as much.

*I believe love does exist for us gay guys: the sky doesn't have to be the limit anymore.

*A hug says more to me than a 1000 words.

*I like a good kisser, I also like a guy with a caring heart behind his masculine exterior.

*Humor & Honesty is key--everything else pales in comparison.

*I AM looking for love, not buds.

*Unresolved rage on an ex situation, suffocation, or a wandering penis is your ticket out the door (I don't like putting negatives in here but I've run into this a lot over the years).

*Similarities are the lemon-aide of life and differences are the spice of life: I enjoy both equally.
What I’m doing with my life
I am into writing, mostly fiction, I am into helping others, food and movies and exercise.
I’m really good at
Encouraging, listening with a desire to understand, gauging my feelings, writing,giving good loving (in all its forms), making up my own songs, and going on linguistic tangents.
The first things people usually notice about me
Tall,blue eyes, soft lips.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Well I have tons of books, music, movies, theater shows I like and we can get into that later. I will say the first play that got me addicted to live theater was Godspell and it still makes me tear up when I see it. My first book that got me into reading was The Hobbit (second, James and the Giant Peach). There is hardly any genre in any of these arts or food I won't give a chance Food: Italian and Lebanese are my favorites. Mexican and Chinese like to tag team occasionally.
Six things I could never do without
Love of family friends and God
Time to Write
orgasmic experiences?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life, spirituality, sexuality, people from my past that I wonder how they are, and what's next.
On a typical Friday night I am
Typically home. Sometimes I may be volunteering or meeting with a friend, or with family seeing a movie. Right now, its Friday and I'm filling this out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I like guys :-)) shocking I know!
You should message me if
you are attracted to integrated men who are authentic and real, are a one man kind of guy, you have a sense of humor, or you are just simply interested in finding out more. I don't bite (well, only on Weds between the hours of 2-4pm).
The two of us