52Market Drayton, United Kingdom
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My self-summary
If you are a fan of Donald Trump, crawl into a dark hole and never speak to anyone again
The idiot is more of a danger to the world than any terrorist.

First of all , if the idea of kink, bdsm abhor you, then read no further.
I identify as a sub, but that doesn't mean I am weak.

Single, 53 year old male whose wants to meet a lady with dominant desires to fall in love and share experiences with.
I'm not looking for someone who thinks that this would mean wearing leather outfits all day or having her man grovelling on his knees 24/7. although those things can have their place. i would ideally like to meet someone who is interested in a subtle FLR. someone open minded .
i would like to meet someone who i can click with on an everyday level. someone who is interested in exploring life and would like an adventurer with her along the way. someone who is as happy jetting off somewhere, sitting in a cinema or sitting reading a book.

if you know what D/s is and you are more D than s then I might be the man for you.. if you have an interest in cuckoldry and/or chastity, then definitely message me.
if you don't know what that is but want to ask, please do..
if you have an open mind or already like those things mentioned previously, then you might like to look.

I could of course not mention this side of myself at all and then try to introduce someone to it later, but that is totally dishonest in my opinion.
that's why I make reference to it in the opening few lines.

Ok , so we have established that I have an interest in kinky stuff, however that isn't all there is about me.
I am a pretty normal guy as well. I have a vanilla profile on here too, but this will do for now.
unlike most, I don't like football. I do like F1 WRC and MotoGP.

I hope to meet a fabulous lady to share my life with and have an adventure or two. someone to fall in love with and who will fall in love with me.
I'd love to meet someone open minded and down to earth. must have a great sense of humour...someone real..
I am really not looking for someone who dresses in latex or leather all the time and walks around swatting bottoms with a riding crop. I don't think anyone could seriously live like that. That's not to say I don't like leather and having a swat every now and then. :))
I do want to find a woman who is comfortable taking the lead.. Again, not all the time perhaps, but certainly comfortable with it.
What I’m doing with my life
i have a full time job and a couple of diverse hobbies.
I’m really good at
Lots of things. I sing well. I am fairly good with my hands. I am a good listener.
The first things people usually notice about me
i am usually smiling
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
i don't get to the cinema anywhere near as often as I would like. When I do i enjoy comedy and thrillers.
I don't read many books and feel guilty about that.
I enjoy the theatre especially plays. I also like to take part in amateur plays.
Guilty pleasure is the big bang theory. Love it.
I cannot abide Towie, made in chelsea or big brother. I would prefer to watch paint dry.
Six things I could never do without
1: Tea.
2: Meat. ( Our bodies have not evolved to survive on veg alone).
3: Company. Although I value solitude sometimes, I love company. Especially someone special to talk to about anything and everything and put the world to rights.
4: Internet access
5: the lake district. I love the place.
6: a car.
7: a phone.
8: rules are to be broken.....
On a typical Friday night I am
Relaxing after a hard weeks work.
Sometimes out for a meal with friends.
I tend to go out Friday rather than Saturday for a drink and sometimes a karaoke....
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
D/s bdsm
Feel free to ask me about it if you want to ......

== Results from ==
100% Bondage Receiver
100% Submissive
96% Experimentalist
96% Slave
91% Degradation Receiver
88% Masochist
79% Exhibitionist
75% Girl/Boy
75% Voyeur
69% Brat
66% Non-monogamist
58% Bondage Giver
50% Primal (Prey)
39% Pervert
34% Sadist
33% Daddy/Mommy
33% Switch
29% Vanilla
26% Primal (Predator)
13% Brat Tamer
8% Dominant
4% All-Rounder
4% Degradation Giver
4% Master/Mistress
See my results online at
You should message me if
I am happy to chat with you about pretty much anything you like.

Or if You share an interest in D/s and a man who could love you.
The two of us