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My self-summary
Take 1: Drifter, 6ft, dark hair, wishes to dine out, sleep in. Honest and sincere. Looking for attractive company, possible LT place to stay. Sense of humor and dancing appreciated. No witchcraft please.

Take 2: Sloven, gluttenous, inconsiderate, lazy, thoughtless, selfish, irresponsible, defensive, demanding, couch potato, farter, disinterested, incorrigable, wanton, stupid, half-assed. Seeks partner with no personality of her own. Must be willing to sublimate. If this isn't what you are looking for please contact me right away.

Take 3: Wonderful man seeks wonderful woman.

I believe in past lives. I've been an adventurer, rogue, vagabond, banker, husband and father, biker, farmer, trucker, stonehead, casanova, intellectual, bum, hero, smartalec, peasant, sailor, lawbreaker, artist, sadhu, helper, failure, student, heartbroken, resurrected. All these things during my current cycle!

"The future enters into us, in order to transform itself in us, long before it happens." Rainer Rilke

I am thoughtful, conversational, irreverent and
gentle. A nice man, with an unassuming, yet self confident air of confusion.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm happy to report that I've actually discovered what I'm supposed to be doing with my life. After 20+ years in the mortgage business I finally escaped. Just finished a master's degree and starting a new career in the helping professions. I've led a life rich in experience and I have a tremendous amount of I don't know what to give, hoping to find someone who wants it!
I’m really good at
I'm really good at engaging with people from all walks of life and and creating comfortable rapport. The work I do calls for me to apparently be doing nothing, but getting some result, which speaks to a natural talent I have... I'm really good at doing nothing.
The first things people usually notice about me
When people do notice me I think it's usually pretty clear to them that I don't stand out in a crowd.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Please! Can't I do this later?
Six things I could never do without
Honestly, I don't think there is anything I could never do without.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I spend a lot of time thinking about sex, food, sports and Einsteins' failed Universal Field Theory.
On a typical Friday night I am
Sometimes treating myself to a pau hana with friends, sometimes reading, sometimes dancing in my room!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I admit nothing! But in private I'll admit everything.
You should message me if
You are as crazy as I am and hope to find Oneness, that incredible but elusive connection that can exist between a man and a woman. A connection that makes them feel... when they are near... when they embrace... when they kiss... when they make love... like one person. Other than that, I'm not too picky.
The two of us