Solastalgic
30Toronto, Canada
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My self-summary
Realized that I hadn't updated my profile in a couple years... Eep.

He/Him/They
White, queer, incredibly tender

Uhm, if it matters to you:

- Cancer sun ~~ Virgo rising
- IN(F/T)P (I rather enjoy the coincidence...)
- Cat guardian to two of the sweetest beings I've had the privilege to meet.
- Currently not working due to health(mental health, predominantly) woes.

Quite silly, reserved til I'm comfortable.

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Important:

In a long term open relationship.

Abominable when it comes to small talk.

Ardently feminist of the inclusive and intersectional sort.

Apparently it's still necessary to state: intolerant attitudes need not apply, but like for real... Don't message me, I'm not down to debate this stuff with internet strangers on a dating site.

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Honestly, life has been rough in the last year - finally feel like I have the capacity to live again.

I'm not looking for anything in particular, just to meet interesting people and develop meaningful connections, go on rad dates and make new friends (whatever form that takes)
What I’m doing with my life
Taking time to work on getting better.
Trying to finish projects
Caring for my plants
Trying to start bands, playing guitar and bass.
Biking
Exploring
I’m really good at
Living in my head, making others facepalm
The first things people usually notice about me
Quiet. Occasionally that I'm aloof.
I've been told that I'm slightly sour and bitter... But not in a Brio way, more like a grapefruit.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Constantly nebulous and changing

I've had the worst time with my attention span when it comes to reading. Mostly reading essays and articles by queer, poc, and indigenous authors.

Movies are neat.

Recently binged tv:
Insecure
Chewing gum
People of earth
Animaniacs

Tv that holds a special place in my heart:
All the star treks. Maybe exclusive of Enterprise

I listen to a lot of Frank Ocean, Solange, hardcore punk, crust and metal. I love it all.

Food:
All.
Six things I could never do without
Q
W
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T
Y
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Social justice issues, settler colonialism, decolonization, mental health, the state of the world, prioritizing my friendships, vulnerability and how fucking rad it is, why folks act the way they do, what my next project will be, personal growth, what to eat,
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually at a show or with friends, alternately at home with my cats, smoking pot and scrolling through tumblrs.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
ACAB? So edgy, right?
Not so private: I have a cat tattoo
You should message me if
You think we might have fun chats
You want to play music
Honestly, just say hi if you want.
More
The two of us
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