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My self-summary
Laid-back, reflective, passionate, accepting. I find it hard to adequately summarise myself.
My personality type is INFP for those interested in that.

By the way, my username is in reference to a track on a particularly good Stars of the Lid album.
What I’m doing with my life
Freelance Photographer. I also make music and paint when the mood strikes, they're really interesting outlets for me.
Oh and I'm also kind of a film nut, especially of the art-house/independent variety. This automatically labels me as pretentious by the way.
I’m really good at
Listening, using art to make sense of things, having an open mind.
I would venture to suggest more, though ascribing positive attributes to myself has never come naturally. Also it depends on your definition of "really good" (Why am I taking this so seriously)
The first things people usually notice about me
I have no idea, not the kind of thing I would ask someone. I guess I have larger than average hands. Maybe my height? Also been told I look younger than my age (for better or worse..)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Authors: Murakami, Dostoevsky, Sartre, Pessoa, Borges, Bataille.
Any book recommendations would be appreciated!

Films: The Spirit of the Beehive, Werckmeister Harmonies, The Turin Horse, All about Lily Chou-Chou, Last Life in the Universe, The Return, Paris Texas, Eyes Wide Shut, Inland Empire, A Woman Under the Influence, Julien Donkey-Boy, Mirror, Stalker, Yi Yi, Nobody Knows, Cure, Syndromes and a Century, Dolls, A Scene at the Sea, Hana-Bi, Taste of Cherry, Uncle Boonmee Who Can Recall His Past Lives, The Seventh Continent, The White Ribbon, Amour, Cria Cuervos, Norte The End of History, From What is Before, Century of Birthing, A Brighter Summer Day.

TV: Curb Your Enthusiasm, The Thick Of It, Jam, Garth Marenghi's Darkplace, Dexter, Arrested Development, Mad Men, Breaking Bad, Armando Iannucci Shows, Homeland, The Wire, Game Of Thrones, Boardwalk Empire..


I'm heavily into Balinese/Javanese gamelan right now. An utterly entrancing and captivating form of music:-
The six things I could never do without
My family, creative tools of many kinds, inspiration wherever it may appear, (wouldn't be British if I didn't say) tea, nature, headphones.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Abstract/metaphysical shit that is probably bad for my mental health but feel compelled towards regardless.
If I should make more of an effort with my profile despite being ill-suited to the oft soul-crushing nature of dating sites.
On a typical Friday night I am
Probably absorbing myself in a good movie, listening to or making music, hanging with friends, going to a show etc.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I like (some) Kpop. That's all you're getting.
You should message me if
You feel we would get along.