DON'T BE AFRAID TO EMAIL ME. I DO NOT BITE (MUCH) AND I HARDLY EVER BARK AND I LOVE TO TALK SO EVEN IF I DON'T LOOK LIKE YOUR IDEAL PERSON WE MIGHT BE FRIENDS.
IF YOU DON'T WANT TO TALK TO ME DON'T LIE. WON'T SAY WHY BUT I KNOW WHEN I AM BEING LIED TO. IF YOU ARE TALKING TO ME AND DECLARE UNDYING DEVOTION I WILL ALSO BE ABLE TO SPOT A FAKE. JOIN THE REAL WORLD PLEASE. AS I ALWAYS SAY "MY MOTHER DIDN'T RAISE ANY STUPID KIDS, UGLY ONES MAYBE, BUT NOT STUPID".
I am someone that believes you should give with the heart. Thats why I often get my fingers caught in the doors that slam shut. But I keep doing it.
I like writing, reading, cooking, sewing, knitting, crocheting, travel, camping, crime, mysteries, genealogy, astrology, paranormal, history. I am also interested in ufos and other 'outside the normal' subjects. I can discuss just about anything though. One book I hope I can read again is about the natural order of evil. It discusses whether nature is evil or just nature. It's done in such a way to make the subject thoroughly fascinating.
Unsolved crimes, child/adult abductions, psychology, philosophy, love, soul mates, twin flames, reincarnation, science fiction, unsolved mysteries
I am basically honest. If I get the feeling that I am just a number in a game I will not disclose every thing there is to know about me. My job and my income, and my health are MY business unless you are applying for the job of supporting me. I pay my own bills and I am up walking or able to get around. If you get to know me you may find out more. I don't care what you make. I only care if you are honest enough not to play games. To me that is the most important part of any relationship. If that bothers you then its been nice NOing you.
I am loyal, creative, and loving
Also, if you do not get a reply to your message do not assume I am a guy. Insulting me will get you nowhere that you haven't already been. Like you guys I feel I have a choice in who I talk to. I'm not about to let anyone take that away from me. So deal with it.
I am getting a start on a book I want to write and it will be fiction because I want to tell a story not just discuss facts. I am the type that feels at home no matter where I go. Just give me my space and I am happy.
I have written most of life except for the ages of 0 to about 5 or 6 when I first learned how to form sentences. I remember writing short stories in 2nd and third grades and how I loved every minute of it. I was also drawing all the time. My favorite subject was dogs. It becomes addicting to write and to draw. Still love it only now with writing I have entered the computer age and believe me it took some getting used to transfer the thoughts I used to write long hand to the computer screen. I found it hard to think when I first started doing it. Now it is easier but sometimes when I have writers' block I get out a pen and paper. That actually does the trick.
There was a time when it was recommended that I make lists to figure out some problems. Then I just forgot the lists. I do that with going shopping also so making lists is not a big 'priority' with me. I find that I need to plan but do short term planning as my long term plans fall flat on their faces. If I want something to happen 'seize the day' and to 'hell' with long range plans. It won't happen if I have to plan weeks ahead. Right now I am working with websites and making information readily available on several topics.. the two main ones being genealogy and the paranormal/astrology.
I am also good at trying to find ways to make people smile. I also adhere to the 'random acts of mindless kindness' syndrome. Try it and see how much it brings back to you.
I am also really good at depressing myself. So I try to concentrate on others and not deal too much with me. I'm happy when I am doing something for others.
You are special to me. No one will ever come my way again with the same set of talents, the unique personality, your smile, the way your eyes light up at what makes you happy, the way you may or may not gesture with your hands, the way your body speaks to me. You are special and unique and hopefully will sit a spell and talk to me when you pass through my world. Try it and see.
Books: Dean Koontz, Stephen King, The Thorn Birds, The Far Pavilions. Brian Lumley
Movies: Twilight series, Dragonfly, White Noise, The Covenant, The Stepfather.
TV Shows: Court TV, Forensic Files. Unsolved Mysteries, Dr. Who
Music: country, classic rock. I love 38 Special's SECOND CHANCE
Food: chicken, cheese, tacos, barbeque (anything)
(I can't believe it's only six... I mean I also can't live without Friends, Family, and Food. The three Fs.... and Travel)
ONE THING I CAN DO WITHOUT: OPERA
I also spend a lot of time wondering if there is someone out there for me. Or have I already had my chance and now it is past. I wonder if real love can hit many times in our lives. I hope so because it would be so nice to have a special someone in my life again.
Anyone willing to break out of a typical Friday night?