I think chemistry is important but is not always there in the early stages of a relationship. I like it when it happens but it will be your mind that intrigues me most and holds my attention over time. Chemistry is great for the fun, banter, playfulness, and passion that undergird a relationship. I am loyal, dependable, fun-loving with a practical streak and know how to be reciprocal in relationships. I have no need to control and do not wish to be controlled. I do love to share and want to be invited to share in another's life. I love to dream (many are fulfilled) and to listen to the dreams of another. I also love to support another in pursuit of his dreams. I love intellectual conversations as much as intimate personal conversations. I am very active and have the benefit of a healthy, energetic activity level. I am creative and tend to think out of the box.
I want someone who is smart and compassionate, is curious and interested in life and enjoys being with people. I want someone that I want to be 'sweet' with. Could it be you?
I like my work but work at home (or the cafe at the corner) several days a week, thus giving me a great deal of flexibility.
My friendships and family relationships matter a lot, so I socialize quite a bit.
I love sailing race on the Bay.
Movies: independent and off-beat films and anything that has exceptional cinematography
Music: Blues, jazz, rock, classical - depends on my mood
Food: variety - I eat in the developing world, so it could be anything. My favorites come from the sea.
Nature especially water in all forms
I want a relationship, not a convenience connection. I want to share the fun of living and the inspiration of each other's ideas. I want to touch, be emotional, banter with our wits, and laugh at life's absurdities.