67Rohnert Park, United States
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My self-summary
I am real because I tried posturing when I was young and it never felt right. I am deep because it is so fulfilling. I am transparent with best friends and partners because it is freeing. I am still friends with my past partners and see some of them as good friends on occasion. It was all about love. Still is.
I love to travel. Nature is pristine but cultures attract me too. I often visit Hawaii each winter. I have a free spirit and a solid ground too - great balance - from backpacking to home owning. I am romantic, a poet, musician, and dancer, with a healthy lifestyle, trusted, compassionate, and full of life. The S.F. North Bay is an aware, forward-thinking place to be.
I am presently in a long term open committed relationship with an interest in more so finding someone in a similar situation would probably be ideal. I will leave it to you to let me know what might work for you.
What I’m doing with my life
Improving, glowing, growing, deepening with my mens group, being mindful, giving thanks, choosing peace not drama, exploring nature, places and things, maintaining my health, biking, hiking, walking, looking for like minded souls. I am mostly retired from work but never from life. I have been involved with conscious open relationship groups such as Network for a New Culture, Sacred Connections, and Morehouse.
I’m really good at
Living in the moment. I have created a full and relatively easy life (rentals/homes) which support me and give me many options. I look forward to more friends living with or nearby me, in Ca. and Hi.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile, my ease, my lightness. I am tender and passionate when I make love.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Most anything that changes my consciousness and stretches me.
Thoughtful thrillers, sci fi, mysteries, romances, and true stories. Visionary books - Stranger in a Strange Land, Time Enough for Love, Silent Spring, The Power of Now, Etc. Almost all music - especially visionary classic rock and folk. I like Thai, Chinese, Japanese, Italian, Slow Food, Whole Foods, Trader Joes, Buffets, and occasionally Subway Sandwiches.
Six things I could never do without
There are so many more than six. Intimacy, transparency, good friends, nature, variety, and creative thinking.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My next grand adventures. Balance and healthy living.
On a typical Friday night I am
All over the map (or home).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My self esteem and goodness are developed. I am proud of 15 years in a men's group. Good relationships and good sex is life affirming and have been mostly easy for me.
I am very open to meeting new people in various ways and long term deep relationships are possible.
You should message me if
You intuitivly like what you have seen and felt here.
The two of us