I have a full life that includes a healthy dollop of ambition, passion and creativity - there's nothing missing, so if you're a "need someone to complete me" type of person, might want to skip the rest of this profile :)
What I AM searching for from OKC is someone who will mutually push boundaries and search for adventures. Show me something, and let me show you something, that one or both of us has never done before.
By-nights and -weekends I sing and play guitar, keys and bass and produce recordings for my own musical project with good friends. www.takegreathighway.com if you're interested.
Most of the girls who've written me on OKC think I'm "cute as a button" and just want to pinch my cheeks. I get cute a lot more than I get "ragingly manly sexy," most likely because of my million dollar smile, and because the only blonde guy who has ever gotten "ragingly manly sexy" from a woman is that guy who plays James Bond.
EDM: Bassnectar, The Floozies, .Flying Lotus, Gramatik, Kaskade, Michael Cassette, Pumpkin, Shakatura, Shapeshifter, Simian Mobile Disco.
More laid-back stuff: Air, The Bionaut, Boards of Canada, Emancipator, Grimes, Little Dragon, Nicolas Jaar, Telepopmusik, Tycho.
Poptronica and Indietronica: Chicane, Delphic, Discovery, Hot Chip, M83, Miike Snow, Monarchy, The Naked and Famous, New Build, OneRepublic, St. Lucia, and my own band Great Highway (shameless plug).
Large bodies of blue water
I am one of the most likely people to not judge a secret habit, fetish, or joy that you have in your life. If you have a secret kink, a geeky hobby, a preference you find embarrassing or something you wouldn't tell "normal people," you'll quickly learn you can tell me and find me smiling about it - at least a 50% chance I'll share and enjoy it with you. Consider yourself challenged :)
Quick addendum, since this seems to come up a lot: yes, I have naturally dominant tendencies under the covers.
I say yes to open-minded people, festival-goers and -doers, gypsies, nerds, geeks, secret or not-so-secret hippies, sensation-seekers, music lovers, or anyone with a positive state of mind and/or their sexuality on a healthy happy overdrive. If you've read Sex At Dawn and nodded your head yes several times, tell me!
I'm not ageist and welcome anyone old enough to drink and younger than 50 (so long as we both think the other person is mega hot. Ha!).
I would also give 1,000 points to any girl who wrote me any of the hilarious poorly-written messages that girls apparently get from guys all the time. I'm having a blast reading them, so ladies, keep on sending 'em.
My wall of favorites so-far (yes, these are each full emails sent by men to women on OKC):
"Wanna fuck?" (followed by a phone number)
"Hey ur cute, where do u live?"
Eric." (this one is also followed by a phone number)
"Hi, I'm naked in a hotel room and alone. Would you like to come play with me."
"Always demand more from the sunset. I am a romantic and I love to love. How about you?"
and (this one is both funny and tragically, tragically sad),
"You might be the person who can get me out of my shell. I am in an arranged marriage so need to be discreet as my wife is not as open as you are."