48 Encinitas, United States
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My self-summary
So, I've found the girl of my dreams. We are very in love and in fact, now engaged. One of the things that makes our union so perfect is that we are actively non-nonogamous. You can see her profile: MonoLibre. She's pretty freakin' amazing. Now, that said, we are both here to find other people to have fun with, either together or solo. If you are comfortable with the idea of poly and open relationships, drop me a line. If you are a couple, we'd love to hear from you.
What I’m doing with my life
Like every one else, throughout my life I have struggled with a yin and a yang in my personality. I am a driven and disciplined business person, but at the same time, I am also a hopeless wave chaser. I love nothing more than to drive into the wilds of Baja or the redwood forests to the north in search of empty beaches and good surf. My mistress is the sea. She fights for my attention all the time. If I could meet someone for whom the sea is equally alluring, I would love to hear from you. Seriously. Love. To. Hear. From. You.
I’m really good at
As I mentioned, I am a "gifted" cook. I make everything from excellent vegetarian Indian food to the softest, juiciest sweet and sour short ribs you ever had. I like people who EAT. If you are the kind of person who eats a Power Bar and a diet Coke every meal, I have nothing to give you. Alright. That's not true. I'll give you shit about it. Then insist you nourish yourself with my amazing cooking mastery!
The first things people usually notice about me
Does smell count? They notice me as a whole. I have been told I enter a room and people know I am there. Apparently I am not good at quiet entrances or maintaining a low profile. I am not bombastic or obnoxious, just a large presence. If you want a waify emo boy cat burglar, then I suppose I am not for you...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Yes, I cut and pasted this directly from another dude's profile. It's pure genius:

Tv shows: fear factor India, fear itself, who wants to be a millionaire, deal or no deal, and COPS.
Movies: scream movies, 13 Ghosts, The watchmen, Wanted, and Hitman 2
Books: the notebook, rose red by Steven king, the green mile by Steven king, Louis la mour, and no one gets out of here alive

If you want an idea of my cultural taste, think exactly the opposite of this list...
The six things I could never do without
Limit it to six? Pssssh. I'm a hedonist! Ridiculous.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I ponder how stupid people who watch Fox News are.
On a typical Friday night I am
Furiously relaxing... Or putting surfboards in my car.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm pretty kinky. Nothing gross. Just open to most ideas, so long as there is some real connecting going on! Definitely contact me if you have an exhibitionistic streak. I am a passionate voyeur.
You should message me if
I seem up your alley, you appreciate my manly scruff, and especially if you're in love with surfing like I am.