When I was in high school my classmates thought I was on drugs because I would sit in class and laugh for no apparent reason other than the thoughts in my head. I still have funny thoughts so if you see me laughing for no reason, don’t worry, I will most likely be sober.
Although it would be nice to find someone fit in mind and body, I have found that I no longer identify with those who let fitness control their lives. Its all about balance. It would also be nice to find someone who doesn't take themselves too seriously and can laugh at my incredibly dry sense of humor. I would also need to find someone who is forgiving because I put my foot in my mouth often, but never maliciously.
I have put a lot of time into my kids so I admire moms who take their roles as mothers seriously and find the time to be involved in their kids' sports and other activities (or have in the past if their children are older).
Music - 80's alternative, Bruce, Country, Classical. If I said Show Tunes, would you question my manhood? :)
Books - Jack Reacher novels (that should quell any fears about my manhood :)