I'm very open and honest (too much so for some people - don't ask my opinion if you don't want to hear the truth!).
I love active pursuits but I'm not obsessive about fitness. I also adore the arts and enjoy kicking back, exploring new places and finding a cosy corner to hang out.
Does this make me sound paradoxical? I often think that's the word which describes me best.
Seeing art exhibits (I'm a Friend at the RA) and various musical performances and theatre.
I am a professional person (as opposed to an amateur person?) but don't see myself as career minded, I earn a comfortable amount but use that to live well and enjoy myself rather than seeing work as a purpose in itself.
Looking for someone who also has varied interests to share laughs, activities, food and wine, travel, etc.
Movies - anything a bit different and thought provoking, not that keen on Hollywood blockbusters (and wouldn't pay to see them at a cinema) but they're OK when you want to put your brain in neutral.
Music - eclectic mix depending on what mood I'm in and what pops into my head. I don't care what's in or out, good music stays good whatever the hipsters say.
Food - again many options as long as it's good quality - Italian, Thai, Japanese some of my favourites. Not hugely taken with Mexican.
TV - documentaries, especially science related, Big Bang Theory, Scandinavian crime thrillers.
Boredom is the enemy
..you have something to say beyond "Nice pics/profile" or "Hi/How are you?". I'm a conversationalist so it's important that I can have a dialogue with a person I'm going to spend time with.
Finally, I'm not into open relationships, polyamory, etc. I don't disapprove, it just doesn't appeal to me.