Married, & poly. Unsurprisingly biologically (very) male, boringly hetero, naturally dominant, though often displaying dismal taste in popular music (preferring soundtracks of certain sub-genres - WipEout on my headphones as I type) and dubious style choices when it comes to clothing. I can be rather reserved in public/company I don't know intimately well, and it's often only when I am relaxed and around those I trust that I am my true self. I only really take serious things seriously.
I am confident in what I am into and what I desire, after quite a long period of not being awfully comfortable with my nature. I am, by nature, dominant, but also believe in equality across gender, race, creed and religion. This caused some concern as to quite how to reconcile the two... but the epiphany was, of course, the realisation that if a woman likes being referred to as “girl” and chooses to submit to a Master – it's completely her choice. If she chooses to submit to me within my rule-set, specifically, it's her choice, just as it's my choice to accept that submission, and if she chooses to accept my collar and all that that entails, it's also her choice and one I am glad to honour.
Communication is key and an absolute necessity in my view.... just as her being fucked senseless in a TNG scant is, maybe, too.
I have learned a great deal from many people within the scene and adopted that which suited me and rejected that which didn't. It has been pointed out that I am highly consent aware, though. RED is a permanent safeword for me, but I pay enough attention to be glad to very seldom hear it.
Drama Llamas are welcome to find their new groove.
I very much look after my partners and friends to the best of my ability, even if that means making a dash across the city (see - power to light the darkest hour makes sense now,) and there are those who know what this means to them. I adapt as necessary to ensure resistance (to generally thinking I am great/awesome) is over-rated.
I prefer straps to rope (especially leather straps for no good reason, so vegans may want to give me a wide berth)... though metallic restraints/Borg style immobilisation are also a favourite, and I much prefer doing to watching.
I never want to see fear - I want to see desire for use in the windows to her soul.
I am in an LTR, with my “primary” (that would be my wife) and we are more like best friends living together than anything else. I am looking for a very submissive, non-smoking but tactile female sub or slave, in full knowledge of all those involved, in the long term, who I may share with the bisexual/lesbian female friends I trust should all consent.
I am currently not in a sexual relationship or in sexual contact with anyone, my primary partner included.
Be warned, if you get involved with me, and you're not a geek in some way shape or form, you will be by the time I have assimilated you – resistance is futile (and most definitely over-rated, as a handful have found ;) )
The girl I take on needs to be compatible personality wise with not just myself but my primary (hugs may well be forthcoming, though it's worth noting she's pretty much asexual) and other close fet/scene aware people that mean a great deal to me. I am being patient, until the right sub or slave girl comes along (and if she is bi and interested in playing with other girls together I won't exactly be disappointed... ;) )
Mildly telephonophobic – expect lots of written communication.
I am a freelance writer – expect lots more written communication.
My personality tests on various platforms (let's face it, mainly FB) usually result in the following answers: Kal-El/Clark Kent/Superman, Captain America/Steve Rogers, Gryffindor, Optimus Prime, Commander Riker, Captain Picard, Spock, Lion, Reindeer, The Doctor, Amiga. You get the gist, yes?
On the spot decisions, trouble shooting, that kinda thing. Having plans in my head for almost every eventuality, and ability to make one for the ones that I have none for already.
Don't be careful.
However to fulfill Staff Robots field flags: Smallville, Amiga, Blu-ray, Retro Gaming, Star Trek and Transformers. You see Transformers there - that means G1, proper stuff not those abominations that got made for cinematic release.
Oh in case you missed it above i did enjoy Hot Fuzz immensely too :D
Recently out of one very major long-term relationship with my other having altered to something completely non-sexual.
Oh and if you can't cope with the concepts of kink and polyamoury/polyamory we probably won't get on.