29Arcata, United States
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My self-summary
Seeking an artistically inclined man who has a voracious appetite for good books, a passion for music, (or be passionate about anything for that matter) and a love of laughter. He would be confident but not cocky, spontaneous and outgoing (though he would still like his alone time to hang with his friends). He would have high self esteem (none of that fishing for compliments crap). He wouldn’t be concerned with vanity, either with himself or his choice of women (a take me as I am or don’t take me at all attitude). He wouldn’t consider me lazy just because I would prefer to stay in bed rather than go out jogging (and he would be more than welcome to join me). He doesn’t mind me asking him which shoes go better with my outfit, but wont be bothered that his answer would not dictate the outcome. He would be honest in his actions and words (no means no; yes means yes). He would not feel emasculated to let me pick the bar/club/restaurant that I would like to go out to, or even pay once in a while (but never expect it as a given). Lastly and most importantly if we met some evening and talked for a while but I had to go I would say "Here is my phone number. I like you. Call me". And he would...

*** Bonus points for cowboys ***

I am artistic, country, and happy.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm an Alumni of Humboldt State University. I graduated with my BA in Art Education. I currently work for HSU and manage an art gallery on the weekends.
I’m really good at
Multitasking...I'm a busy person that likes to keep going, going, going...and I'm really good at balancing life.

And cooking for that matter. I fancy myself a good chef.
The first things people usually notice about me
My gregarious nature.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love the Mercy Thompson series, On Dublin Street Books, but most of my book choices are guilty pleasures and I often won't admit to them...i.e...I'm a closet Harry Potter fan and I'm presently in a smexy book rut...

I love movies, The Big Year tops my list at the moment. Though I find it hard to pick favorites, I do love Pride & Prejudice, Dr. Who, Downton Abby, The Office, Dexter, The Newsroom, Arrested Development, Always Sunny...

I <3 Sushi. Nuff said.
Six things I could never do without
1. Family
2. Art
3. Coffee
4. Good Books
5. More Coffee
6. Spontaneity

I reserve the right to swap out for my reserve list...

7. Baking
8. Good Music
9. More Art
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Buying a house one day. I love to watch house hunters! It's teaching me the ins & outs of house hunting...I'd love to buy a place in arcata and fix it up.
On a typical Friday night I am
Depends on the Friday...I love to go out to Arts Arcata and enjoy the wine tasting on the plaza.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
If you look and/or sound like a stoner I probably won't message you back. Sorry I just really can't date someone who smokes, nothing personal :-)
The two of us