sxjthefirst
40 Sydney, Australia
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My self-summary
When I try my hand at these "about me-s" so many things come to my mind and am not sure what to say and what not to ... Well take a look at my profile if you feel we can be friends (or more) leave me a message.

Looking for:

Love. Yes I believe in love I can see people around me who are in love so the data supports the hypothesis that love exists.

Friends. Always. Always up to making a new friend. So if you think we may not be romantically/sexually compatible go ahead and still message me we never know what interests we might share. Benefits negotiable :)

Not against online friends but I feel I have made a ton of those. So prefer someone I can meet with in person.

Physique:
Never been toned and fit I doubt I ever will. Never been fat. I was the skinny guy in glasses for the first 25 years or so of my life. Since then have shaped up a little better (and yeah got rid of the glasses) I work out mostly at home - a combo of pilates, yoga, and stretches - wondering if I should go back to the gym. I am also learning to swim so if you can help with that awesome.
I stay active except when I am lazy ;)
I have a right leg thinner than the left so walk with a limp. Yep I am gay AND lame :)

Nerd Cred:
I have a stackoverflow score in the high 100s. I go to technology meetups. I can code in Unix Shell, Java, Android, and Python. A bit of C++ too. I am a Bat fan but like characters in both DC and Marvel universe. And I am a fan of P.G Wodehouse's works too. I've read Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy! Not a gamer or trekkie.

Personality:
Friendly, rational, well read, laid back, and casual. Not religious or spiritual but a thinker and philosophical. Can be short tempered (but never violent) at times. Calm under stress.
If I am not talking a lot to you we aren't getting along or something is bothering me.

I am informed, sensitive, and realistic
What I’m doing with my life
Improving it... Step by step ...achieving my dreams
I’m really good at
The first things people usually notice about me
I don't know...ask 'em. Smile and eyes seem to be the most popular answers on here not boobs or bulges :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
a)Books- I read a lot. b) Movies - Many many of them. Anything that's intelligent and/or funny. c) Music- Not my strong area. Anything thats sounds like a good listen d) Food - Love to try out different eats...love indian, italian, american, malaysian, chinese, mexican etc. When I put my mind to it my cooking is good and people have survived and appreciated it
The six things I could never do without
Other than whats necessary to sustain life(food, water, clothes, money, friends...) nothing much. I've been told that I am flexible.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
In no particular order: the world, me, me and the world, politics, films, my future, my past, sex, friends, family, society, love, punctuation, books, psychosis, ice cream ...
On a typical Friday night I am
No typical night...sometimes I go out sometimes I go wild, sometimes dinner or a swim or walk or a movie, at others I stay at home and watch TV or read or browse, yet others I muck around. Then there's always chores to be done.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'll tell you when we are both naked ;)
You should message me if
You want to tell me something? DUH!! I am good at chatting so go ahead send me a message.
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