Love. Yes I believe in love I can see people around me who are in love so the data supports the hypothesis that love exists. And since gay men don't automatically know what fits in where I should say now that I am vers bottom when it comes to sex.
Friends. Always. Always up to making a new friend. So if you think we may not be romantically/sexually compatible go ahead and still message me we never know what interests we might share. Benefits negotiable :)
Not against online friends but I feel I have made a ton of those. So prefer someone I can meet with in person.
Never been toned and fit I doubt I ever will. Never been fat. I was the skinny guy in glasses for the first 25 years or so of my life. Since then have shaped up a little better (and yeah got rid of the glasses) I work out mostly at home - a combo of pilates, yoga, and stretches - wondering if I should go back to the gym. I am also learning to swim so if you can help with that awesome.
I stay active except when I am lazy ;)
I have a right leg thinner than the left so walk with a limp. Yep I am gay AND lame :)
I have a stackoverflow score in the high 100s. I go to technology meetups. I can code in Unix Shell, Java, Android, and Python. A bit of C++ too. I am a Bat fan but like characters in both DC and Marvel universe. And I am a fan of P.G Wodehouse's works too. I've read Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy! Not a gamer or trekkie.
Friendly, rational, well read, laid back, and casual. Not religious or spiritual but a thinker and philosophical. Can be short tempered (but never violent) at times. Calm under stress.
If I am not talking a lot to you we aren't getting along or something is bothering me.
I am informed, sensitive, and realistic