- emotionally mature
- radically vulnerable
- passionate about something
- committed to personal growth
I am transitioning my career into being a UX Designer, and attending grad school in the Cultural Studies program at UW Bothell.
I am anti-capitalist, introverted <-> misanthropic, bad in groups, and possess a shifting gender identity.
When I have free time, I teach myself new artistic mediums! I've got skills in throwing stoneware, carpentry, leather stitching, notebook making, printmaking, stamp carving, photography, video editing, graphic design, web design, writing, stringed instruments (uke, mandolin, guitar, viola, banjo), gaga dancing ... and I want more!
Recommending melancholy/sexy music.
Being attentive and really listening to the person I'm engaged with.
Keeping succulents teetering on the brink of death.
Chopped, Adventure Time, Bee and Puppycat, BLACK MIRROR, Broad CIty
Recent Music: Purity Ring, Beach House, Ryan Hemsworth, FKA Twigs, Baths, Braids, Caribou, The Antlers, Vashti Bunyan, Sharon Van Etten, Charli XCX, Ariana Grande, Alt-J, Kendrick Lamar, Childish Gambino, sexy melancholy dance/sex music
Anything by the great Hayao Miyazaki, The Skin I Live In, Blue Valentine, Fish Tank, Headhunters, Klown, Jeff Who Lives at Home, The Kids are Alright, Stoker, Frances Ha, Blue is the Warmest Color, Call Me Kuchu, Harold and Maude, Boyhood, Cutie and the Boxer, Kumu Hina
Recent Books: The Color Purple, The Absolutely True Diary of a Part-Time Indian, How to Be an Adult in Relationships, How to Be an Adult in Love, Your Illustrated Guide to Becoming One with the Universe, The Alchemist, In the Country, my poet friends' chapbooks
Saga, Walking Dead, Fables, On Loving Women, haven't read any recently but please send me recs!
Re-glutening myself after years of being GF! Also love me a meaty meat
Freedom, I am my own separate being
How to be less racist.
How to end rape culture.
White divestment, or how to have relationships with white people
The future of #BlackLivesMatter
How to heal from my internalized racism, sexism and homophobia.
Holding the complicatedness of valid group attributes and the complexity of individuals.
Privilege, and recognizing my own.
Battling fatphobia as a thin person.
How to truly love with complete vulnerability, gentle self-honesty, and shared commitment of personal freedom.
comfortable with silence, or used to being around introverts/HSPs
have an evolving analysis of oppression and are active in fighting injustice
have an generous sense of humor
a reader of books and a lifelong learner
not a white queer tryna get a masc asian queer
like to embark on spontaneous adventures!